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my wife and i make love in the massonary position.she wants me to try anul sex with her.iv tried it once when we were drunk but i think my penis is a little to big can you tell me what lubracation i should use and if i should give a nother try because she had anul sex before and love it.she said her climax was 10 times better.
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by Yvonne Fulbright: ()
Since the anus and rectum are full of sensitive nerve endings, it is no surprise that your wife enjoys anal sex. Anal sex is usually performed with both partners face down in a doggie style position or in a man-on-top position. Relaxation is key, as well as LOTS of lubrication. Start by moistening your wife's anus with lubricant or saliva. PrePair is a spermicidal lubricant that is recommended for anal intercourse. Lubricate your penis (and condom if using one). Gently insert your penis into her rectum. If she's not relaxed enough, try relaxing her anal sphincter muscle with some finger penetration first. During anal sex, maintain a controlled pelvic thrusting, so as not to tear the anal lining or condom. Go slowly, especially at first. Check in with your wife occasionally, too, to make sure she's not in pain. Doing this sober, versus drunk, will make the experience easier, and probably more pleasurable for both of you as well.
Thank you for visiting the Sexual Health Network.
Yvonne K. Fulbright, MS.Ed.Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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