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I 24 and been with the same guy for 5 years now. We have a 3 yr old son. My problem is that I never have an orgasm with my partner. I can have an orgasm if I used a vibrator on my clit and then it takes an extremly long time. This is having a devestating effect on our relationship. Is there anything I can do to make this better?
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Answer:
by Melissa BEE: (06/22/2004)
All women climax differently. Some have orgasms from clitoral stimulation, others by stimulating the Gra'fenberg spot, (a nerve sentensive area inside the front wall of the vagina). And some women experience orgasm through both the clitoris and G spot, though rarely at the same time. Your ability as a woman to experience any or all types of orgasm will change over time. Because female bodies are unique, there's no fail-proof recipe for bringing on a female orgasm at a given moment.
You have established that you CAN orgasm, so becoming orgasmic with (and for) your partner might involve some new learning. You can learn to have different types of orgasms, and to get far more pleasure from your love making. You can get some literature or tapes yourself or you can get a Sex Therapist to instruct you.
Good Luck,
Melissa BEEReviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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