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Question:
hi kat, i have been with my gf for 7 months now and i wanna know how i can give her a orgams? she keeps asking me why dont i give her one but how can i knwo she wont tell me how i give her or how she gets off but yer well i hope you can help me that you i really love this girl thanks for ya help

Answer:
by Kathleen VanKirk:
(01/05/2006)
While I think it's great you are so focused on giving your partner pleasure, you are not responsible for your girlfriend's orgasms. Either she is not communicating to you how to please her because she doesn't know how to tell you or she may not know herself. I would suggest that you sit down with her and have a heart to heart about whether she masturbates or not and if she does, asking you to show you how she masturbates. If she doesn't masturbate (and therefore may not know how to orgasm), I would suggest her getting a good book like "For Yourself" to begin her exploration.

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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