Answer:
by Larry Siegel: (07/02/2004)
Hi and thanks for taking the time to write in. Yours is a question that many young women are concerned about. In reality, there may not be a high probability of your becoming pregnant in the situation you describe but there is a possibility. However, even that possibility is pretty slim. The best thing for you to do is definitely use an alternative method (like a condom) for a full cycle and in a week or so make an appointment with a family planning center (like Planned Parenthood) to take a pregnancy test. There are home tests you can buy in the supermarket, but I suggest having it done professionally to be certain. I would also use this as an important lesson. Pregnancy and STI prevention is something you should take seriously; an important responsibility in adding sexual intimacy to your relationship. Sexual intercourse should never take us by suprise and there is no such thing as an "accidental" pregnancy (unintentional, maybe, but never accidental). Please also remember that even though you may be on the Pill, you still need to consider protecting yourself from STIs. Using a condom and being on the Pill will cover both bases, especially if you're not 200% sure of your partner's past experience.
While sex may be perfectly natural, it's not naturally perfect. There are many things that can happen when we're not fully ready to deal with the responsibilities and consequences of sexual relationships - physically, emotionally, financially, socially, spiritually. The more you think about and talk about with your partner, the more likely you will be to avoid most of those consequences.
I wish you all the best and much success in your life and loves. Please feel free to write in again if you have any other questions or concerns. Take care and be well.
Larry SiegelReviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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