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Hi, I'm sixteen and my girlfriend is fifteen and we have recently moved our relationship to sex. She has no hymen and she is a virgin and the first time I put it in her was alright and she said it felt good, but like 5 minutes later she said she suddenly had to urinate. Now is this a virgin thing or what cause I'm kinda confused. When we did this is was right after orgasm because I gave her oral sex, could this be the reason? Thanks for your reply ahead of time.

Answer:
by Megan Andelloux: (03/12/2005)
Ok...first it sounds as though you and your partner are doing a great job of trying to please one another and are rocking at the communication! So, give yourselves a pat on the back for that one cause you are already a couple steps ahead of the game, especially with the communication! What it sounds like to me is you are stimulating her G-Spot. The G-Spot is actually the urethral sponge, meaning it wraps around the urethra and when she becomes aroused, especially after already having an orgasm, it becomes really sensitive. some women like it, some don't, but the main consenus is is that it touching it usually makes a woman feel like she has to pee. I'm assuming also that she doesn't want to pee on you based on your question, so have her go pee before you play, don't have her chug water during your play time and when she gets that sensation, tell her to relax! She's got nothing in her to release-it just means that her g-spot is being played with. Now, if she doesn't like her g-spot being played with (it feels uncomfortable to her other than the urination feeling) then you should stop (as it sounds like you''ve done) and let her body relax for a bit before you penetrate her again. Allowing her g-spot to reduce in swelling will make her more comfortable and enjoy sex more without worry. So, in closing, feeling like she has to pee most likely means you have located her g-spot. Having an orgasm beforehand increasing the g-spot being more sensitive to stimulation. Pee beforehand and don't drink any water during and she won't pee. Stop if she feels uncomfy, wait till she is not as aroused and then go back to playing in her body. Hope this was helpful and let me know if other stuff comes up! Megan Andelloux

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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