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Question:
Hi, I am an American male living in China and I fell in love with a Chinese girl but we have a problem. I have a larger than normal penis and she is smaller than normal. She is only about four feet 10 inches tall. She is 19 and was a virgin when we met. We have made love many times and are considering marraige. We have been making love about once a week for about six months. Our worry is that she often has pain because I am too large during intercourse but she insists on making love because I enjoy it. She does not enjoy sex very much. We are worried that if we were married and had sex often that I would damage her. I could not live with myself if I caused her permanent damage. Our question is, will her body adjust in time, or will she be damaged by more sex? Thank you for your help. J.G.

Answer:
by Farid Abdel Hadi:
(06/26/2004)
((Hope all is well after these last terrible mishaps in NY and DC)) Generally there is not problem of incompatability as regards size between a man and a woman. On the first few time, yes, she may be small or tight. But with regular intercourse, it is the normal thing that she gets better all the time. Actually if you have sex less than say twice a week, and definetly if more than 2-3 weeks, she may benifit from using a set of commercially available dilators that help her maintain any her width.

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