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Question:
I have had sex many times and have been figered and had a boy eat me out, some of boys that have had a lots of practice, yet during the many times about sexual pleasure i have never reached a orgasm, does this mean i will never have one?
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Answer:
by Megan Andelloux: (09/06/2005)
Well, the first question I would ask is are you masturbating? Masturbation is a fun, free way to keep yourself occupied and learn how your body works. Women who masturbate learn where and how they like to be touched and report a higher percentage of having orgasms. Once you learn about your body and it's trigger points you can then choose to disclose that to your partner(s)! No one knows your body as well as you do so take measures into your own hands and find a private place to diddle! Most women, just so you know also, report having their orgasms before or after sexual intercourse, through oral or digital stimulation. A lot of women do not orgasm with a penis inside of them (unless their clitoris is also being stimulated)as it doesn't give the clitoris the proper stimulation. While your boyfriends are important to have there, their presence is not crucial to your cumming-you are. Learn about your body, point out where you like to be touched and how you like your touch to be. Engage in some "practice" sessions! If that doesn't work, take measures into your own hands, literally. Stimulate yourself as you and your partner are being sexual. You can get yourself off and most people really enjoy seeing their partner's masturbate, so he'll enjoy it too!Reviewed by: Kathleen VanKirk DHS
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