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Question:
I guess I'm writing in concern for my fiance. We have been together for about one year. Before him i had several partners as did he. While im not a man so i cant say for sure, it appears to me that most men have verrrry intence pleasure when they "come" or ejaculate. By that i mean funny faces, grunting, and or noise. Even though i am easily able to arouse my boyfreind and even get him to ejaculate sometimes more than once, it doesnt seem to pleasure him as it would other men before him. No faces, no noise, practicly nothing.

The texture and look of his semen doesnt seem quite right either. I understand that as with many things, these things can vary between different men. He says he has always been this way. He also has in the past, maturbated frequently. He still does when he is away from home. Not as much though. THank you for your time, I really appreciate any help i might get.


Answer:
by Rajendra Sathe:
(07/07/2004)
There is no set pattern of a sexual response and the intensity that is seen during orgasm. Just because your current boyfriend does not make funny faces, grunting, and or noise, it does not mean that he does not enjoy sex. As regards his semen, you are right. Don't get worked up on this issue.

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