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Question:
i seem to expieriance a dark white substance on my bed sheets after having sex with my boyfriend, he wears a condom so it cant be from him, help why is this???

Answer:
by Annette Owens:
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It is possible that you ejaculate during orgasm, and it is also possible that you are leaking urine. It is hard to tell for sure without involving more elaborate testing of your fluids, which is an option. Are you incontinent in other non-sexual situations? Many women who release excessive fluids during intercourse and sex put down towels or protective sheets. There are many fluids involved in sex (sweat, ejaculate, saliva, etc.) and it can be relieving just to let it all flow. The book The Clitoral Truth by Rebecca Chalker has a whole chapter on female ejaculation, and there are a lot of case stories. The book also has some very good illustrations about the female genitals, giving most women a new and better understanding of their anatomy. Finally, since the color was dark white could the fluid have been related to your menstruation? If the problem persists I would encourage you to address this topic with a physician. Sincerely, Annette Owens, MD PhD Editors note - Two additional possibilities to consider: 1) It could be your normal vaginal lubrication that has dried on the sheets. This can leave a white mark. 2) It could be dried cum (ejaculate) after your boyfriend removed his condom. Patricia Fawver, Ph.D., editor

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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