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Question:
I am an 18 year old male with very little experience with sexual/emotional relationships about a month ago I had sex for the first time. Dispite the fact that the girl I was with seemed to enjoy it I couldn't feel anything at all (neither pleasure nor pain) and was notable to ejaculate. I havent had sex since. I am concerned that this may be related to my recent curcumsision (i was curcumsised to correct a deformed foreskin) I am able to masturbate so i am unsure if it is a biological problem or wether it was just first time nerves should i go and see my doctor about this and if so what can be done about it?

Answer:
by Gale Golden:
(01/31/2006)
Hi: sorry about the problems you have had with sex the first time. I would not let this stop me from pursuing help. It certainly may be related to the surgery you have just had. I agree with you that you ought to go back to your doctor. If you don't get anywhere, get a second opinion from someone else. This can be helped and you should be able to have a pleasurable sex life. Take care.

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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