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Question:
I am a married male, age 35. Since taking an anti-depressant called Zoloft (I am still on it), my orgasms seem less intense. What can I do to increase the intensity of my orgasm? Also, My wife and I often use the withdrawal method of birth control. I enjoy pulling out and squirting her down! What can I do or take to increase the amount of fluid I ejaculate? I do not seem to ejaculate as much since I started on Zoloft (2 yrs ago). Please help me! Thanks so much.

Answer:
by Carolyn Gerdes:
(06/02/2004)
Zoloft is a medication that is commonly prescribed for conditions such as depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and panic disorders. Some of the most common side effects associated with Zoloft are ejaculatory delay and decreased libido. The decrease in the intensity of your orgasms and changes in you ejaculatory volume are likely caused by your medication. Also if you ejaculate frequently this can also contribute to a decrease in ejaculatory volume. The fact that you can still get an erection and reach orgasm is promising as many individuals have far more dramatic sexual side effects associated with the use of Zoloft. You may want to speak with your doctor about the decreased intensity of your orgasms as he or she may be able to reduce your dosage of Zoloft which may help to alleviate some of your problems.

You should also keep in mind that using the withdrawal method of birth control is not a highly effective one. If you and your wife are looking to avoid pregnancy you should also discuss using a different form of birth control.

Follow-up questions: Thank you for your response about Zoloft. I have gone to taking it every other day as my doc has prescribed me to do, and soon may get off it altogether. I only take 50mg per day, but now 50mg every other day. I will let you know of the results.

Also, I can't remember if I asked you this (I think I did), but is there anything to that "sex in a bottle" herbal stuff. I believe green oats is the main ingredient ? and that it releases bound testosterone in the body, increasing orgasm intensity, as well as increases different types of sexual pleasure such as increased genital stimulation, and in general better sexual pleasure. Is there anything to this, or is it hype? Their studies say it works for 70% of those who take it. Maybe cutting back on the Zoloft will do the trick....if not, I may try such an herbal supplement?
Thank You...........
P.S. Been withdrawing 13 years with great success! If my wife did become pregnant, that would not upset us. We have 1 child whom we adore; may have 1 more anyway. But later in life I agree, we will need a different method of birth control!

Follow-up response: I am glad to hear back from you. I am confident that you will find that a decrease in your Zoloft dose will help to increase your orgasmic responses.

As for your question concerning the large number of these herbal products that market themselves as "sexual enhancers", "sex in the bottle" or as "natural aphrodisiacs", there is very limited scientific research that has been done on these products. The United States Food and Drug Administration does not require the same type of rigorous testing for "herbal" compounds as they do for prescription medications. Therefore many of the claims that these herbal manufactures make about these compounds have never been scientifically proven. Testosterone is important for stimulating both the sex drive in the male and female but only small amounts are required. Decreased testosterone levels to the point were one would start to experience a decrease in sexual functioning are fairly uncommon. Your cells can only bind so much testosterone at one time, so having extra unbound testosterone to bind to your cells is not going to bring about any additional physiological changes.

Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team

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