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Hello Dr,
My problem is that i use to masturbate too often 4 to 6 times a week on every day or with a day gap in between in each ejaculation
I have read in your archieves that the more often a person masturbates it is difficult for him to ejaculate and the more infrequent one is will likely to face the problem of rapid ejaculation but in my case i always ejaculate in sometimes 15 OR sometimes 30 seconds whether i masturbate too infrequent or too frequent.
WHEN I START STIMULTING MY PENIS,IN SOME 3 TO 5 SECONDS I start feeing good and i could not proceed as i feel i will ejaculate on the coming of each pre-cum drop out of my penis i stop immediately but when open my eyes and see to my penis i see a transparent drop of pre-cum and when i resume again i feel like that and i also ejaculate the white fluid a bit when i resume the stimulation and finally i ejaculate.
I cannot masturbate constantly stimulating my penis for just 5 seconds and have to start and resume after every 2 sec and finally ejaculate in 5 seconds.
I don't have such good feelings on orgasm as i does when does not masturbate this much frequent, is frequency has somethig to do with the orgastic feelings
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Answer:
by Konstance McCaffree: (06/05/2004)
THank you for writing. I am glad that you read the material in the archives as well, so that you have learned more about how masturbation can help you slow down the ejaculation.
I notice that you said that you masturbated too often, 4-6 times a week or with a day in between. This is not too often. Many men masturbated 2-3 or more times in ONE day, not just one week.
You may find that you will need to masturbate even more often if you want to learn to slow down your response. You seem to have a quick response when you begin stimulating yourself, but many men do have a quick response. What you may need to do is figure out ways that you can touch yourself that doesn't arouse you quite so much. One might be putting a cloth over the penis so there isn't direct contact to it with your hand. You also may want to change body positions. YOu might find that if you lay a different way that your arousal is not so fast.
I also always recommend that you try masturbating more often, let it come fast, and then continue to masturbate. By the 2nd or 3rd ejaculation you should feel your body slow down, and you can get more pleasure from the slowness if it. There is no reason you can't masturbate more often than you say that you have been doing. It is good for your body, and not a problem to help your body slow down even more if you do it several times in a short period of time, not wait for another day to masturbate.
Please write back for more answers if this doesn't help you with your situation.Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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