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This question is, what i would think, very akward (although im sure you're used to akward questions). I feel somewhat guilty for asking it, but i must know... I enjoy dirty talk. Not in a perverted, constantly horny way, but i do enjoy dirty talk when i am horny. i know of certain lady friends of mine who are interested in me, and who are very sexual. could you suggest how i could approach them seeking what i want, without offending them, and making the offer seem beneficial to them too?
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by Erin McKay: (02/03/2006)
Start off slowly by introducing a couple of basic words or lines in their ear and see how they react. Some women will simply not be interested; however some will be very interested.
You could also try and ask them to whisper dirty things in your ear and see if this is something they are interested in.
It might also be useful to start off with some humor. For example you could jokingly ask them on the phone to describe what they are wearing and see if they are willing to play along.
Once you have a sense of their comfort level then you will know what their interest is.
Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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