Answer:
by Scott Gross: (03/15/2008)
Hi and thanks for your question. It is very common for two people in a relationship to have different levels of sexual interest, but this is also an area that can cause some strain in a relationship. A lowered libido could just be part of your boyfriend's personality, but it could also be the cause of medications, health issues, or a number of other causes.
It is clear that this is an important issue, so the first thing you should do is to talk very openly and honestly together about how you feel. You both need to talk about what you feel is an appropriate amount of sexual interaction and how to approach this issue as a couple. You will probably need to come to some kind of compromise. It is also normal and ok for you to express yourself sexually through masturbation.
It may also be helpful for the two of you to speak with a sexual health counselor or therapist who may be able to shed more light on this subject for you. You can find a trained person in your area by visiting www.aasect.org.
I truly hope this information has been helpful to you. Best of luck!
M. Scott Gross Reviewed by: Kathleen VanKirk DHS
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