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Question:
I have been married for a year now. But, we haven't had a sexual intercourse yet. My wife complains that it hurts a lot and we end up she giving me a handjob. It's getting very frustrating and we are worried about our sexual health. PLEASE HELP!!

Answer:
by Farid Abdel Hadi:
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Dear Sir. Thank you for your consultation request. This problem is common and is usually easily solved. You had seen someone and dealt with what may be a physical problem. Now there remains some fear at the part of the wife. This will need some help. See your doctor. You may get some lubricating jel, some dilation exercies, or some psychological support. On all cases, you need to practise sypmpathy and support (and I can see very well that you did this already).

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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