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Ok again srry that you have to hear the same questions all the time bu I am parranoid just as everybody else who asks thier questions. My boyfriend rubbed his penis up against my clitoris(we were both w/o any underware or protection) but he did not ejaculate, or had pre-sperm on the tip of his penis. But I would like to know the chances of getting preagnant or possibilities...Should i really worry about this? or is it just something i should be aware of from now on and abstain from doing it again? He said it is ok because he did not ejaculate at all and probably did not have pre-sperm. Also how would I know if I was preganant if i have an extremely irregular period in which i get it roughly once a year in september, what could be the reason of my oh so irregular period,I feel absoulutely fine and the doctors have not found anything in my blood. So could there be something extrememly wrong? Or is that how my body works? . I am so worried about this because I do not want to have a big surprise in a few months?? If I should get a preganancy test, shoul i do an at home test or go to a clinic?? Please answer this question I need to know!
Thank You!!
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by Megan Andelloux: (06/16/2005)
Umm Ok. The chances of you being pregnant is unlikely as there was no ejaculation near you. Rubbing the penis against the clitoris is fine and dandy, but even better if he has a condom on when he does it. Condoms should be placed on the penis as soon as he gets erect, so in case there is any of that rubbing action, you are protected.
As for your irregular periods, I suggest going on the pill and no, it will not make you infertile if you use it. I don't know where you heard that but it is completely false! If you go on the pill you will be protected against pregnancy and it will regulate your period. You can also choose to only use it for a few months to jump start your periods so they come every month. Sometimes the body just needs to be triggered into working when it is starting out something new, lots of women need this jump start so don't fret about having irregular periods.
If you are concerned about being pregnant, I would recommend you go on something that regulates your periods so you get confirmation every month that you are not pregnant. Signs of pregnancy (early pregnancy) include nauseousness, breast tenderness and headaches. Pregnancy tests that you can buy are extremely reliable as long as you follow the directions to a tee. If you are concerned that you will mess it up or you don't want to have a pregnancy test lying around your house, go to a clinic and have them do it. They are generally 10.00 for a clinic to do a pregnancy test, but sometimes they are free and in most places, they won't turn you away if you don't have the money to pay for it. The important thing here is if you are pregnant, it's best to know early on, so you can take a pregnancy test 2 weeks after you think you might have gotton pregnant, even if your period is irreular. That would be my suggestion, so you don't have any surprises in the next few months.
Good Luck and thanks for writing in!
Megan AndellouxReviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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