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Question:
What about sex after hysterectomy? Will it feel the
same? Will HE feel the same? I am very worried, the
time has come to resume. Please help! By the way,
ovaries are in tact, and I want it just as much as ever,
but I am scared.
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Answer:
by Annette Owens: (06/02/2004)
It is hard to predict whether it will feel the same
for you or not. Let me assure you that the majority of
women following hysterectomy experience either an
unchanged or even improved (due to beneficial effects
on health and pelvic symptoms) sex life. Some women
feel that their sex life has deteriorated, but this is
often due to loss of ovaries and consequently a
decrease in libido. Since your ovaries are intact, and
your sexual desire appears unchanged I think you have a
very good chance to be able to resume a very
satisfying sex life.
It is likely that your vagina initially may seem
somewhat shrunken or shortened. However, during
careful initial intercourse the vaginal tissues will most
likely stretch. I suggest starting out slowly, and allowing
each other much time to become reaquainted sexually.
Once you are ready for penetration, it may be easier
for you to be sitting on top of your partner, facing him.
In the superior position you will be able to control the
level of penetration and the amount of thrusting. Be
sure to have some lubricant handy if you should need
it.
All the best,
Annette Owens, MD PhDReviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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