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Question:
I need to talk to someone about
my wife's and my problems. they are
issues that are intimate and I need help
solving them.. She is 64 and I am 62.
She has a problem with any feeling left
for sex or especially affection no desire
hardly.
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Answer:
by Beverly Johnson: (05/15/2004)
In general as we age our bodies slow
down in many ways. This slowing down
may include how we respond sexually.
The desire and interest for sexual
intimacy can be affected by many parts
of our lives. This seemed to be the
major part of your concern in your note.
Some ideas to consider:
Your partner should have a complete
physical examination
especially from a health care provider
[nurse practitioner or doctor] with
whom she has a trusting relationship.
Open direct communication about your
situation with her could be
useful if this is a comfortable option for
both of you Sometimes professional
assistance is useful: a sex counselor or
therapist. Use caution in selecting such a
person. Try to obtain a referral from a
reputable health care provider. The
American Association of Sex Educators,
Counselors, and Therapist could help
here. http://aasect.org
Reduced or lessened sexual desire is an
issue for adults of many
ages in the US. For women after
menopause sometimes hormonal
replacement therapy can be helpful.
Depression or a sense of not
feeling useful or contributing to life can
affect sexual desire.
Physical health problems can also be an
issue [reason for suggestion to have a
complete physical exam]
Thanks for your question,
Bev Johnson, Ph.D., RNReviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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