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I would appreciate any information that you can give on cerebral palsy as it effects sexual desire and the ability to engage in sexual relations

Answer:
by Russell Shuttleworth: (05/13/2004)
Having cerebral palsy has no physical effect on sexual desire. Genital arousal and erectile function are usually not directly affected. What may effect sexual desire for the person with cp. are the for the most part negative sociocultural attitudes toward sexuality and disability and the cultural ideals of attractiveness that currently hold sway. When people are given the message that they are not sexual or attractive, this can sometimes have an effect on their sexual desires. The ability to engage in sexual relations implies a lot. Sexual relations begin with finding someone to have relations with. A sometimes discouraging task for the person with cp. in a society that routinely asexualizes them. But certainly not hopeless. A study I conducted of the search for sexual intimacy for 14 men with moderate to severe cp. found that most of them have had sexual relationships with others or currently are in a relationship. I also interviewed some of women that are involved with these men. They definitely see them as sexually desirable. Communication is an ability that some people disabled or non-disabled can have trouble with. Communication is essential in the building of a relationship. Then of course there is the physical dimension--kissing, holding hands, sexual positioning, etc. Cerebral palsy can limit some physical aspects of a sexual relationship. Yet, some men in the study said that this spurred their creativity in sex, which was positively viewed by their partners. Communication around your limitations and an openness by you and your partner to creatively experiment are invaluable to a healthy sexual relationship. I hope I have addressed your concerns, Russell Shuttleworth The Sexual Health Network

Reviewed by: Kathleen VanKirk DHS

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