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Sexuality Education: Human Sexual Response Cycles Human Sexual Response Cycles Introduction:
There are several different sexual response cycle models. Regardless of which we ascribe to, the sexual response cycle addresses the psychological and emotional aspects of desire, as well as the physical experience of arousal, reaching a plateau, having an orgasm (with or without ejaculation), and experiencing resolution, during which the body returns to its previous, unaroused state. The thing is, not everyone goes through this cycle in the same way. Arousal can take a longer time for some than it does for others. Orgasms are different for different people and for one individual at different times. Some people may reach orgasm when engaging in one kind of behavior, but not during another. There is a wide variety of what’s considered “normal” during sexual arousal and expression. This channel addresses many of these and other issues.
Answered Sexuality Education - Human Sexual Response Cycles Questions: My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years and having sex for 4. Every time I get close to orgasm (usually I'm on top facing him to even get close), I feel the need to slow way down because ....
Hey. where to start! I guess i should start with my first time. well i was 16, and i don't even know if this counts as losing your virginity! he penetrated me, and it hurt, but we carried on. after ab ....
hi doc, my problem is that i feel wet once i touch my wife and specifically after my penis wake up in one min.Also the first intercourse i ejaculate very fast and i continue in the penetration process ....
hello i am 16 and i have had a problem recently i have been masterbating 3-4 times a week recently since i was around 12 and between the ages of 12-14 i probably did it more then 3-4 times a week, and ....
I have performed cunnilingus twice on my girlfriend, each time for the better part of an hour. I am new at this but seem to be enjoying it. My girlfriend is 22 and tells me she is a virgin. I don't ....
recently my boyfriend and I were making love and at the end he climaxed so strongly (mostly manual stimulation, his ejaculate went as far as the top of his shoulder) that his entire body seemed to con ....
I am 18 years old and have been sexually active for less than six months; something happens to me once in a while that i cannot explain: My partner and I love when he kisses my breast sometimes he ge ....
I'm a 17 year old girl and I find that I'm excreting fluids more and more often. I'm not sexually active and don't masturbate. but everytime i'm around my (girl) friend i seem to get excited. all we d ....
Can a man pre-cum without it being for any reason other than sexual or a health issue?
I have no problems getting a erection. I often get plenty of erections But, my penis tends to leak semen-like fluid after each erection. For example when we are not having sex, but just making out on ....
I'ma 17 yrs old guy doing my engineering.I have a high sex drive. I masturbate daily. After when semen comes out I feel guilty. I want to leave this habit completely so that i don't have problems in m ....
hi kat,
i have been with my gf for 7 months now and i wanna know how i can give her a orgams? she keeps asking me why dont i give her one but how can i knwo she wont tell me how i give her or how she ....
Within about 5 to 10 seconds after having an orgasm I get a terrible pain that shoots down my left leg. It radiates from my knee and goes down to my ankle. The pain lasts between 10 and 15 minutes. Th ....
Hi, I am 18 years old and have been having sex for about 7 months now. I have never had an orgasam. I do however get to the point where I cannot handle it anymore and have to ask my boyfriend to stop, ....
I am disturbed. Tonight I studied web pages about female ejaculation, found an instructional site, and tried it for the first time. I made sure to empty my bladder first and then masturbated while on ....
I have been having "sexual problems" since I was 16. Problems like: difficulty getting or staying wet during sex, unable to acheive orgasm via intercourse, body shakes when on top and I'd stop aburp ....
Hey, I am 33 and my husband is 42. We have great sex but doesn't seem to last more than maybe 3-5 minutes, I was just wondering if this is normal in a man his age? I love the whole 3-5 minutes,he is u ....
Are there any problems with masturbating too frequently? I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember (since before puberty). In my teenage years I would frequently maturbate multiple time ....
Dear Dr. Kat,
"What's up with all of the female arousal creams I hear about? Do they work?"
Sometimes when my boyfriend orgasms it seems to go on a long time, in waves as it were. Once it was as though he was having up to 8 separate orgasms - we counted. There is usually quite a few minutes ....
I have had sex with my ex-boyfriend quite alot while we dated...but I was never able to reach orgasm.I've even had problems with oral and also when I'm alone.I'm with a new guy and we are talking abou ....
Hi, I'm a 38 yr old female, my sex drive is stronger than ever...my question is regarding a different type of orgasim. During sex I have multiple orgasims.. sometimes it can be brought on by clitoral ....
Is it possible to become pregant actualy cumming inside of a girl. And I was having sex with my girlfriend last night, and when i ejaculated the condom didn't break but i felt some sort of liquid on m ....
hello my name is kelly Im 20 and ive never had an orgasm nor have I ever masterbated ive been thinking about buying a vibrator which kind do you reccomend? and How do I use it ive never done it before ....
I can't masterbate. It's doesn't feel good to me. It does when my husband does it but I can't have an orgasm. I know that I get really wet sometimes and other times not so much. It really bothers me t ....
I have tried to have sex twice with my partner in the last few days and I don't get wet and get tight it seems. I have never had this problem until now. What could it be??
Shannon
hi doctor my girlfriend and got curious about one thing:when i touch and press her tits will they develop i mean become bigger and larger?or what changes become in her tits??thank u
i have been masterbating for almost 12 years now and it seems that now when i do it i get a headache in the lower back of my head. does masterbation have anything to do with it? It only seems to happe ....
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i am a 24 yr old male. i seem to have uncontrolled ejaculations in my sleep. its very embarrassing. i also suffer from P.E. Any advice on how to avoid these early morning wet spots?
thank ....
I'm indian, 26yrs married male, i have masterbate since last 2 yrs (twice in week), i dont have any other bad habits, my question is when i intercourse with my wife my pennis will be ejaculate the cum ....
Hi, i am a 15 yr old male and i have not had a wet dream or ejaculated, am i like never goin to be able to ejaculate ?
hi, i am a 15 yr old male and i have not had a wet dream or ejaculated am i like never going to be able to ejaculate
I have been finding it very difficult to get any form of sexual arousal. this is usually more prominent when i find it very difficult to get lubricated that my boyfriend actually referres to me as a d ....
Ive been sexually active for almost three years.. Ive had two seperate partners. Ive not been able to orgasm. I was wondering if it was me or my partners?
I guess I'm writing in concern for my fiance. We have been together for about one year. Before him i had several partners as did he. While im not a man so i cant say for sure, it appears to me that ....
First off, Dr. McCaffree I would like to thank you for reading my question. I am a 19 year old female with a problem. I have for as long as I remember decided to abstain from sex til I get married. I ....
i am a 19 year old boy. i do my studies in india.i am very succesfull in my studies and i am doing my life well. But there is one problem which has been in my mind for years. when i was a child (about ....
I am a 63 yr old. gay female, who has met a wonderful woman, and am very deeply in love. My problem is that when I am approaching orgasm, it is as if something switches off and I cannot have an orga ....
Hi. I'm 19 years of age and have had previous girlfriends without have the problem of receiving a erection. I'm with this girl that I love now and I can get my penis erect sometimes but then it doesn' ....
After sex is it normal for your vaginal area to be swollen or sore. My vagina was normal after intercorse when I went to cleanse myself it became sore and had the appearance of a rash
I'm 16 years old and have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months, and we are both still virgins. I believe I am suffering from an anxiety disorder surrounding a certain event. One night after ....
I just want to ask ,How to bring any woman to the
hightest point of excitment and desire to have sex right now?
THANKS
"please clear with pictures as possiple asyou can"
Im 16 and when i masterbate in the shower i get little red spots(in one big blotch) on my chest that are internal(under the skin:can only see them)...should i be concerned about this?
how can i get my girlfriend to have a non faked orgasm from oral sex proformed on her?
I am 20 yrs old--married to a wonderful 47 yr old man.....our/my problem is I never seem to get wet or have a orgasm. He gets me hot enough...but I am always very dry or come very little..I feel like ....
I had sex three months ago to my wife. That was the first time i am experiencing a sex. I really want to make her happy all the time. Therefore; i give her full priority during the sex. During the sex ....
when my girlfriend and i fool around she gets this weird feeling while being stimulated she describes as flushness. She says it feels as if the blood leaves her head and returns quickly
it lasts only ....
i was wondering, whenever having oral sex, or just being fingered by a guy, should you become extremely lubricated? it gets very wet in that area and i was wondering if that is normal or not?
hi, This question is not about me but my girlfriend. We have been having sex for about 6 months and have been going out for a year and in that time I have not been able to give her an orgasm and being ....
for awhile now, there always to be something coming out and onto my underwear. it seems like it might be like urine but im not positive. and whenever my boyfriend has his hand down there it gets reall ....
My girlfriend and I usually make love more then once in a day but lately I've been having a weird problem with my erection. U see before, after the first time we were making love my penis would become ....
I haven't seen this anywhere, when I have sex and approach orgasm, I get a sensation that is very intense. The muscles in my legs and then the rest of my body tighten up to the point that it is unbear ....
when my girlfreind and i have sex, alot and i mean alot of fluid comes out of her virgina.what is it? it doesnt taste like urine. at least an ounce or two from each orgasim, total of about 7 or 8 o ....
I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18. While I have no problems reaching an orgasm she does not at all. She says that it feels good but thats it. I feel like I am letting her down as a sexual partner. Am I ....
I'm 28 years old, since about 5 years ago I started having problems with too much pre-seminal fluid. When I'm aroused I start expulsing pre-seminal fluid but too much as it appears outside of my pant ....
Hey, I'm 15 years old and my girlfriend is a few months younger than i am, not a large age difference,but i have a question about female teen orgasms. So far, i have given my g/f 4 fingerings for the ....
Whenever I achieve an erection, whether whilst with my partner or alone, I seep excessive amounts of what I believe to be seminal fluid from my penis. The fluid is colorless, quite watery yet 'slimy' ....
I can have clitoral orgasms but I've been trying to have vaginal orgasms for a few years now. Where is the "G-spot" usually located in women? I feel like I don't even have one. I've heard that when th ....
I'm a female in her 30's who recently experienced something very unusual during a sexual encounter -- and while it was intriguing, I wanted to quickly check it wasn't a sign of a problem!
It wasn't ....
I have 2 sexual partners. With one I ejaculate after about 10 thrusts which I thinkis not very satisfying for that partner. With the other partner I can stay erect and have sex for hours at a time. ....
I have begun to date my girlfriend for about 5 months now and we are both virgins (we are the first boyfriend/girlfriend to each other). Two weeks ago I have started to play with her breasts (massagin ....
I am a 19 year old female, and I have what may or may not be considered a problem. When I have sex, I orgasm A LOT. In fact, I probably have an orgasm every 2 or 3 seconds. I was just wondering if it ....
I am a 20 year old male in excellent shape, and i have never really had trouble ejaculating when it comes to intercourse, masturbation, or oral. until last night that is. over the past two days my gir ....
I have had a consistent problem with over vaginal lubrication, meaning that I lubricate to the point that there is no "friction", causing my significant other to lose his erection. How can I avoid thi ....
there is a 5 yr old boy in my son's after school program. during quiet time (watch tv, story time, etc.) this boy lays on his stomach and proceeds to "hump" the carpet. is there a reason for this? is ....
Hi. How r u? Some background information for my question is as follows: My boyfriend is 21 and he is excited very easily. He's the only boyfriend that I've ever had and I've been with him for almost 3 ....
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I would like to ask a questions, but I didn't know where to go and fill out
the question thing. Anyways, my question is ok: I'm losing my virginity
with this I really love and I know I m ....
To return to asking you a question, you said "g-spot"--What, where is the g-spot?
I have an incredible relationship with my fiancé and our sex life has been just as incredible. Until recently, last week for the first time my penis could did not achieve maximum erection and since t ....
When I have sexual intercourse for the first time in a week, I always ejaculate within a minute or two. Is this normal? When I recover from the first time, I proceed to have sexual intercourse again a ....
i seem to expieriance a dark white substance on my bed sheets after having sex with my boyfriend, he wears a condom so it cant be from him, help why is this???
i was just wondering, is it physically possible to "scream," or whatnot, during an orgasm?
i think i read in a health magazine that because all the muscles are contracting at that
point in time, it ....
I 24 and been with the same guy for 5 years now. We have a 3 yr old son. My problem is that I never have an orgasm with my partner. I can have an orgasm if I used a vibrator on my clit and then it tak ....
Hi, I am 22 years old. Male. I recently got married. I was virgin all my life but now I want to have sex with my wife as much as possible.
The sad thing is that I can not do it more than once. Aft ....
I'm 24 years of age and I've been masturbating for about 10 years from now. I used to have better ejaculation for all these years but recently it has taken a huge fall. Since last two weeks I'm hardly ....
My question is in relation to female orgasm/ejaculation. I have asked many women if they ejaculate when they have an orgasm. Many have said yes, but some professionals have told me that women have mus ....
Thank You for providing such a wonderful service. I am 28 yo. Am dating this really wonderful girl and our relationship is getting really serious. Just 2 days ago we’ve decided to have sex and am real ....
I'm a healthy 22 year old that exercises regularly and has a healthy diet. I haven't been sexually active until recently, but now that I am, I have a problem ejaculating.
Every time I have an orgasm I get dizzy and hear a loud ringing in my ears.
I have never been able to orgasm with a partner. When I masturbate, it takes a while for me to build up to orgasm, but once that happens, I am able to have dozens, with a short downtime between each. ....
What hormones are directly involved in orgasm and ejaculation? Could one be normally formed sexually, but have a hormone deficiency that prevented orgasm? Are their hormones involved in genital sensit ....
I am a physically fit 21 year old Caucasian. I have never orgasmed in my
whole life, I also have never ejaculated (through masterbation or by
stimulation by another) but I do have wet dreams every s ....
I'd like to know about female ejaculation. I gush profusely when I have an orgasm and it embaresses me. Where does it come from? Am I peeing?
hi
i am not able to masturbate frequently (there needs to be a gap of at least 7-8 hours between successive masturbations . also i am find it difficult to masturbate daily for more than 3-4 days). ....
I have an overactive libido and frequently masterbate 3-4 times a day is that too much will i suffer repercussions from that?
whenever i get my penis hardened, there fuild flowing out from my tip of penis.
I think I have experienced orgasms in my sleep (4 of them over the last 2 years)
Is this possible?
You've probably been asked this question a ba-zillion times, but I need to know something about orgasms. I've just recently become sexual active and when I come to orgasm all the muscles tense up aro ....
What could cause a man to be unable to either climax or ejaculate after prolonged intercourse? This is a fairly recent (last 6 mos) problem.
PLEASE HELP! ever since i have been with my current girlfriend i have only been able to give her a clitoral orgasm on 3 occasions. (1 yr) we have sex quite regularly and it's great however she is only ....
I have been married for 10 years and in the last 4 years or so I will find myself attempting to have sex with my wife in the middle of our sleeping. Usually 2-4 in the morning. Most times I don't re ....
My partner had an orgasm without having his genital area touched at all. There was sexual tension, a message, and nibbling on his ear, and he orgasmed after about 3 hours of preparing for me giving h ....
i woul like to ask you that what is the min , max & average time
that a man can hold on during intercourse
What is female ejaculation and how does it happen?
Where does the "squirted" fluid come from?
Is this fluid urine or a very watery version of a women's lubrication?
Dear Dr. Owens,
I am a 24 year old female. I have been in a serious relationship for two and a half years. When my boyfriend and I started dating, I was a 'technical' virgin, that is to say, I ha ....
When I put my finger in my wife's vagina I touch something that makes her flood almost like she is weeing, not all the time now and again. I'm always trying to find it but cant all the time, what have ....
I'm a quadriplegic, 24-year-old male and have never had
sex. I get erections all the time but cannot relieve them
myself because of my disability. They are getting longer,
more frequ ....
I am a C6-7 incomplete quad with pretty good sensation
and no trouble getting erections. The problem is, I can only
ejaculate for about two days in a row, sometimes three. Then
I mus ....
I found your site to be very helpful for me. Can you please tell me whether I should go for medication for increasing duration. I usually have problems for first time ..which only continues for 3-4 mi ....
During arousal how much do your breast enlarge?
While my partner and are are having sex I come so close to
having a orgasm, but then all of a sudden the feeling stops. I don't
cum, nothing, I hav ....
My girlfriend is having problems reaching orgasms as of lately.
We have been sexually active for about a year and a half and nothing
like this has ....
My problem is excessive lubrication before and during
intercourse. Is there anything that will dry this up so to speak? It
makes for less enjoyable ....
My boyfriend can't reach an orgasm with me. He had an
erection and good intercourse but he never ends with an
ejacul ....
I am 51 and am seeing a gentleman who is 42.
The problem is that every time that we are together
we have sex 10+ times a da ....
I'm 20 yrs old and have had sex a lot in the last five
years. My problem is that i don't know when i have an
orgasm. Serious ....
I am 43 and have always heard that I should be at my sexual
peak. Unfortunately, I prefer cuddling & kissing to actual intercourse.
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I'm a bit embarrassed to ask this question, but the other day my
partner and I were in midst of fooling around and I began to finger her.
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