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Love and Relationships: Virginity Virginity Introduction: Virginity is defined in different ways by different people. When someone is in a relationship with someone of a different gender, the end of virginity is usually marked by penis-vagina intercourse. Not everyone defines virginity in that way, however. For example, people who are in a same-gender relationship do not have penis-vagina intercourse, but do not see themselves as virgins. In addition, people who have been raped may still see themselves as virgins until they have been with someone who they consented to be with. Virginity is seen as a valued status in some cultures, and an antiquated concept in others. It may be appreciated in people of one gender, and ridiculed in people of another gender. All of these complicated aspects of what does or does not make someone a virgin, and why this may or may not be important to an individual or group, are discussed in this channel.
Answered Love and Relationships - Virginity Questions: How concerned should I be being a single male a few years from age 40 and have never dated or had sex? can you get pregnant from masterbation I am an 18 year old male with very little experience with sexual/emotional relationships
about a month ago I had sex for the first time. Dispite the fact that the girl I was with seemed to enjoy i .... Four days ago my boyfriend and I were fooling around in bed. Neither of us have ever had sex or been in any way sexually active. We ended up both with our pants off and his penis was touching my vagin .... Hi there, i spent lastnight with my gf and were both virgins. We had never tried to have sex until lastnight. It didnt go as planned, basically the problem was that i could not keep my penis up and wh .... hi ,
i was trying to enter my Gf's vagina ...but she is having a lot of pain.maybe that is because as you have mentioned earlier about vaginismus. also please tell me if she can get pregnant(i did nt .... This question comes from my friend.She is to embarresed to ask herself so i saod i'll do it for her.She says that she got board one day and she decided to do something out of the ordinary.She stuck on .... Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex but he couldn't get it in. He had a condom on but eventually we gave up. He ejaculated into the condom and we flushed it. I told him to wipe it before he got on t .... Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time a couple of nights ago. I am 19, he is 25 and we are both virgins. He tried to put his penis inside of me, when he went in it felt ok but whe .... I'm a guy 18 yrs old and a virgin,and in about a yr and a half i'm getting married to my girlfriend or fiance'. But my g/f made a bad mistake one time and only once so she's not a virgin, so on our we .... Okay, in November of 04..I was 15. I had sex with my first partner...he then broke up with me two days later. Then in March '05, I went to my local health clinic and got a pep smear done. The reason w .... i recently have tryed to have sex but i cant get a penis inside me why is this I am an older virgin who is bipolar, and may have autism/aspergers. Wanting to know, when I have gotten close to a woman I am attracted to, I dissociate, or blackout. I am out of the present moment; .... Im 15 year old girl and i havent had sex yet, but i want to but im scared my vagina hole is to small i have tryed inserting my fingers i can only fit one into my vagina...what shall i do when i get to .... I am 21 years old and a virgin, my boyfriend is 24. 4 times in the last two weeks we have 'dry humped' but we were naked and it wasn't very dry at all. A few times he even had his head in me. He ca .... Hi, a few days ago me and my girlfriend were fooling around in bed. We haven't had any intercourse, but we were "dry humping" and I ejaculated on her. I was naked and she was only with her panties. Se .... Dear Dr. Kat,
"My fiancé and I will be virgins on our wedding night (he's 21 and I'm 19). How can we prepare to have a good sexual experience?"
I'm 15 and I have had sex 5 times and after the 5th time there is still a little bit of bleeding, not enough to cause a problem, but i am still worrying that i will always bleed, is this normal? i am 20y girl when i had sex appeal i get totally naked n enter corner of pillow or hands of toys inside my pussy rubbing up n down n i get a nice feeling 4 a minute Is this masturbation? Is now i am .... My girlfriend and I were both virgins when we decided to engage in sexual intercourse. The first few times it hurt momentarily when I entered and at first, then she said the pain went away. After then .... my period is usually 27 days cycle. I was on my 15ths day since the first day of my last period. My boyfriend pre-ejaculated on his boxers. He touched the damp spot, then waited for 30 seconds before .... If my hymen is torn and it bleeds, does it mean I have an open wound or a sore? Earlier tonight my girlfriend and i were dryhumping and a lot of precum got on her (we were going at it for quite a while) though i urinated fairly soon before we started so i know no sperm were in my .... I had sex with my girlfreind for the first time yeserday. She was a virgin, i wasnt. After having sex, she didnt bleed? Does this mean she is still a virgin? Does a girl have to bleed to break her vir .... my girlfriend have been trying to have sex for a while now and we have had some problems. I have a 5 inch penis and when ever i try to enter into her vagina, my penis pushes away from it. THis has hap .... hi docter i want to know can the girl get pregnant and she is still a virgin cause my bf said some girls are born open now i'm really worried can i get pregnant if my bf had sperm on me...??????? Hi I am a 18 yr old female and have been in a serious relationship for quite some time now. We discussed having sex, both being virgins and finally agreed that we were ready. The first time his head o .... hi me and my gf were playing around in my theater and i was wearing a condom and i was rubbing around her vagina with my penis and i dont even think i went in but if i did it was only an inch and she .... My boyfriend and I were fooling around about 2 weeks ago and he masturbated and may have gotten cum on his hands, but then WASHED HIS HANDS. He then proceeded to finger me, but not to the point of org .... im 16 year old girl and have been in a relationship with my bf for several months. we are both new to certain sexual exploits. i gave him head for the first time a couple days ago and he said that i .... About a month ago, a few days after I my period was over, my boyfriend and i who both would like to stay virgins enjoyed other sexually pleasures being both naked. His penis didnt go in but I didnt no .... So, at age 21 I went and lost my virginity. After we got past the hymen bit (which was moderately awful, but he was patient with my obnoxiously stubborn cherry and its unwillingness to just *break* al .... I am a 18 year old virgin. i just recently tried to have sex. he was very thick and big. when he tried to put it in me i began to bleed and it hurt. it seemed to bleed alot. well like i was start .... hi!i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and i was just wondering if there's something wrong with me because i didnt bleed when we did it!even though we did it in a lot of different position .... i have meet this guy about a year ago at my job. i really like him but he was married and has a 4 year old kid. he told me that his wife had died after his child was born. last winter when i was on va .... My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite some time. Several times, we have tried to engage in intercourse, and failed every time. We have tried different positions, and the only way we could att .... hi,when i first got my period i used tampons straight away the ones that were too heavy for my flow.i noticed it had riped the inside skin of my vagina leaving me with to entry holes to my vagina.i re .... Hi, my bf & i was just cuddling with each other & he kissed my brests & touched me all over my body, clitros , & all the lower parts, i enjoyed it at that time but now afterwards i am feeling guilty a .... Okay i don't know how to say this but i like this guy and he likes me but my problem is every time i talk to him like in school or on the phone i get really horny. And now he did something that he fee .... Ive been masturbating for several years, a lot, at some points i even did 4 times in a single day. Now I have three problems: my penis seems to bend a little to the left and low, I have a urinary prob .... Recently me and my girlfriend have been intimate with each other, but both of us are still virgins. Three days ago, I was wearing cotton underwear, and she was wearing cotton shorts and nylon panties .... The problem of impotence may be a common one, but my situation may be unusual. I am 35 years old and, due to lack of success with the ladies, have never had sex. I think it must be very unusual for so .... Hi, I'm 12, and i'm still a virgin, but i have masterbatted. I'm in the 7th grade, and for the sex education week, a girl asked a question about "popping the cherry". When my female teacher answered t .... I have a question about hymen.having sex with girls who have an annular hymen and there hymen return to regular form after sexual relationship without any bloodshed or visual damages on her hymem may .... I have a question about hymem. having sex with girls who have an annular hymem and there hymem return to regular form after sexual relationship without any bloodshed or visual damages on her hymem ma .... my friend just had sex for the first time and her cherry/hymen popped but there is
a string/tube looking thing hanging out about half an inch, is that the cherry/hymen not
popped all the way? Any .... If you are a virgin, will having a cervical smear test break your hymen? The first time a female has sex it is said she is supposed to bleed. But, when we did for the first time she didn't.. The term "popping the cherry" what is it supposed to mean? Where is it's location .... I'm a 25 year old male and my fiance in 18 months younger to me. We have been engaged since the last 4 months and are getting married 15 days from now. We are both deeply in love with each other and a .... I'm a 25 year old male and my fiance in 18 months younger to me. We have been engaged since the last 4 months and are getting married 15 days from now. We are both deeply in love with each other and a .... I have decided to remain a virgin until I marry to avoid complications associated with STDs and pregnancy. But I have met someone with whom I enjoy "playing around", and am wondering if I can contract .... i am 16 yrs old, never had sex, and i noticed something wrong with my vagina. It was itchy at first and then i noticed there was something there, it was between my vagina, it was like another cheek ha .... How can you know if a female is a virgin or not from the outside;no tests i mean?Thanx :) My girlfriend and I are both virgins, and we will not have sex until we are married. I just had a question about female anatomy. A while back, we were getting physical with each other a bit. I touc .... i am a 17yr old and i have a problem i have not had sex and my girl friend want's to have sex but it's my first time and i dont now what to do. we have sleep with each other before but i have not made .... well im 16 and had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and i bleed the first time and the second time aswell. Is there a problem or am i just being paronoid? well I am 16 yrs old and i have had sex with my boyfriend twice and the first time i bleed and i also did the second time. Is this usual or is there a problem? please help Hi, My boyfriend and I are 17 both virgins soon and have been trying to have sex for about two months. Everytime we try, we have to stop because it hurts me terribly bad. He gets about two inches in .... Dear Farid Abdul Hadi:
I'm 24 years-old this year and my girl friend is 22.We love each other so much and we live on the same campus,we kiss each other every day,but also because of sex disire we tou .... My boyfrien and I was going to have intercourse. this would be my first time. When he put his finger inside of me it really hurt. As long as he didn't move it went fine, but as soon as he moved the fi .... dear sir
i want to know when a boy's sperm(i don't know what is called which a men's penis always gives out which color is white)when get's simply into girl's vagina without the man's penis touching .... My girlfriend is unable to use contraceptives as this may cause problems with pregnancy later due to earlier problems. I produce a lot of precum and there is concern over whether she will become pregn .... When a virgin goes to the Gynocologist for the first time, does the doctor break the protective membrane during the papsmear, or will it be broken during sexual intercourse?
Can sperm enter into th .... If you and your partner are both virgins and you are messing around and or foreplay and the male happens to cum while in foreplay. If the sperm happens to get on or near the vagina will the sperm swim .... hello i am 15 A few days ago my boyfriend fingered me and also placed his penis on me but over my panties. I'm not sure if he cummed or not but my most important concern is that my period hasn't come .... I want to know that is it true that if a girl get a sexual intercourse then she walking style get changed , that is she walks by steping her legs in oblick position like ( /\ )insted of ( || ). Is the .... Could you please give me an idea as to how difficult intercourse is supposed to be? I'm not able to be penetrated,not even with artificial lube.Any attempt causes extreme pain/burning.My boyfriend say .... i just want to how to know on the first night of my wedding that my wife is a virgin Every time I try to have sex my boyfriend can not penetrate me with his penis what can I do to help him be able to penetrate me? I am a 23 year old woman and am still a virgin. my boyfriend and i have been trying to have sex but it's not happening because everytime he tries to enter me it hurts a lot. he has tried to get me u .... Is it possible for woman to become pregnant while her hymen is still intact? I have been married for a year now. But, we haven't had a sexual intercourse yet. My wife complains that it hurts a lot and we end up she giving me a handjob. It's getting very frustrating and we ar .... hi sir...
i m a 20 year old boy ...i dont have any bad habbits like smoking or drinking...i have no problme in erections ..they are normal..but i dont know how to masturbate...never tried much ofr i .... Hi, I'm 19 years old and am still a virgin.However,not by choice.I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 months now,and we have done evertything but have sex.For some reason he can not get his peni .... hi doctor i have 2 questions that i must ask the first is that my girl want to have sex and i do to but i dont know one thing about having sex and where do i post to enter at? and the sceond is that i .... Hi I had exprienced foreplay with my boyfriend for the first time and saw a little bit of blood comming from the vaginal opening after foreplay I know I don't have an infection but is there some way t .... well my Boy friend just started fingering me a couple months ago. at first it was bad but now i bleed pretty much every time he does it. i dont know why. we dont do it during my period. i'm afraid it .... Good day, this evening I experimented with mutual masturbation with my girlfriend. She made me orgasm, and while I cleaned myself up and am fairly sure my hands didn't come into contact with semen, I .... Hi, i am an 18 year old male and am still a virgin, i recently met a girl the same age as me who i have been trying to get intimate with. This girl is very experienced, and i find her attractive. She .... Comments:
I would like to ask a questions, but I didn't know where to go and fill out
the question thing. Anyways, my question is ok: I'm losing my virginity
with this I really love and I know I m .... My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and sex is becoming more and more a realistic probability. I love him, but I have no interest in sex. I'm actually terrified of the idea. He's .... I have recently married. I know that women have hymen which usually tears on first sexual intercourse. However, this did't happen when I had my first intercourse with my wife. I know there might be ot .... hi
i found this site off sexualhealth.com
and i was wondering if u can help me..
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5 days ago
i had inserted my finger to my girlfriend's vigina...it was first time for b .... hi
i found this site off sexualhealth.com
and i was wondering if u can help me..
i will short but detailed
5 days ago
i had inserted my finger to my girlfriend's vigina...it was first time for b .... hi. im 20 and i had sex. the problem is that in my vagaina there isn't 1 "hole" as there is suppose to be, but 2 with a flesh "bridge" between. it doesnt hurt or bother me, i just wanted to know if it .... Hi,
I am an American male living in China and I fell in love with a Chinese girl but we have a problem. I have a larger than normal penis and she is smaller than normal. She is only about four feet 1 .... Hi,
I am an American male living in China and I fell in love with a Chinese girl but we have a problem. I have a larger than normal penis and she is smaller than normal. She is only about four feet 1 .... I'm writing you in order to find out if there is any possibilituy to know, for sure, if i'm still virgin. I never had sexual intercourse with men but i usually masturbate (really deep) and I wear tamp .... I have always been sexually active, but my boyfriend has not. He had intercourse for his
first time with me, about a week ago. We have had intercourse twice. Our problem is that his penis
keeps sl .... Last week I was masturbating my g/f when she told me to stop b/c she said it was burning. She was also expecting her period to start. Her period started the next day so she thought it may have been .... Hi, I am 31 years old and have had first sexual intercourse one month ago. I understand that it is always painful to lose viriginity but still it was not possible to have a full intercourse with my h .... is it natural for a woman to experience pain the first few times of intercource? Until she is 'loose'? I'm a 16 year old male and haven't yet had sexual experiences with anybody. However, over the past year I've been keeping a close eye on what I think might be a possible problem although I don't know .... I'm a 16 year old male and haven't yet had sexual experiences with anybody. However, over the past year I've been keeping a close eye on what I think might be a possible problem althought I don't know .... I'm a 16 year old male and haven't yet had sexual experiences with anybody. However, over the past year I've been keeping a close eye on what I think might be a possible problem althought I don't know .... i'm 28 now and i've never had any intercoure with a man .but i've been masturbating for a few years now.i have two problems:
first in my culture a virginity is only known by the existance of the hymn .... I recently had intercourse with my girlfriend. It was the first time for both of us, so everything was new. It was painful for her getting my penis in, but eventually it got all the way in. The odd th .... Hi!
i am a 19 year old girl and have been going out with my boyfried for 6 months. Recently we decided to not to wait any longer and to go ahead and have sex. My concern is that sinc
i am a virgi .... I HAVE THESE FLESH COLORED BUMPS ON MY PENIS THEY DO NOT HURT OR ITCH AND I AM NOT SEXUALLY ACTIVE YET AND I WAS WANDERING COULD THEY BE SOME KIND OF STD FROM MASTURBATION? IF ITS NOT AN STD CAN YOU .... Um, well this might sound kind of dumb. I'll start from the beggining I'm 17 and
I've never had sexual intercourse. I've done just about everything but the actual
thing. I was just wondering what t .... It's pretty simple, really. I've been emailing a boy in England (16) and he admitted to me that he did not know what a hymen was. I sent him two links about hymens, but I couldn't find anything to r .... I seem to have these tiny little bumps on my penis but I am not sexually active. I have not had sex nor any oral sex. I have masturbated quite a few times. I was wandering can I get any STDS from mast .... Everytime my boyfriend and I try to have sex, he can't get his penis inside me. We have tried different positions but nothing has worked. It hurts after he goes in about 3 inches and then he has to .... Hello doctor. i would very much like to know if a woman can get pregnant when she has sexual intercourse 1 or 2 days before her menstruation. she's got irregular menstruation cycle and she said she ha .... i'm 18 years old, and within the last few months have become sexually active with my boyfriend, we both lost our virginities to eachother so we are both new at the whole sexual relationship thing.
i .... My husband and I were both virgins when we married last week. We had been enjoying really great sex, but decided that for the extended efforts of newlyweds we needed extra lubrication. We chose KY l .... well i got drunk and me and this girl were about to have sex but i was so drunk that i was rubbing my penis were her pubic hair is and and then i relised that it wasent in and then we had sex and i wa .... i've knowticed in my vaginal area that i have small black spots. they aren't raised off the skin but they are just dark spots on the lips of my vigina a very small one on the outside and then a little .... Hi, I am very uncomfortable by asking these questions.
Are you supposed to shave your pubic hair?
and this is my friend's question.
she says that some of her private part is darker
than the .... I have a question about my 10 year-old daughter. She was at a cottage with my relatives when she fell off her bike and hurt her genital area.
She was in a lot of pain, blood came out and she couldn' .... I am 18 and i have been with my girlfriend for two years. We are both still virgins but we do engage in sexual activity often. Recently we were making out and doing some vigorous dry humping. She o .... Hi, I have a 18 yr old girlfriend, whom i slept with a week ago. I did not insert my penis inside her vagina, but was gives strokes externally. During this her vagina had become wet with my semen. Can .... I'm 24 years old and I just had sex for the very first time last week. My concern is that ever since that day, it's been painful every time I go to the restroom, I have this burning feeling, I was won .... i have small lumps/bumps on my penis and i dont know what they are. They have bin there for a while but are painless. I have never had sex so i am totally puzzled to what they are. PLEASE PLEASE PLE .... I am a 26 year old virgin and have recently started seeing a man who wants to be sexually active. We've pleasured each other in many ways but have never had intercourse. I am nervous about my "first .... I am a 19 year old male that has not had intercourse yet. My girlfriend has given my oral sex many times and I would like to return the favor. The problem is, is tha I do not know how to make her or .... First time sexual intercourse resulted in excessive bleeding - is this normal? Me and my girlfreind have been making out for quite a while now. Just yesterday we were doing the same, but go carried away.
We began having sex.
I wasn't wearing a condom, and she hasn't used any k .... I am a 20 year old and have not had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend yet as its too painful. My doctor told me that my hymen was not fully broken yet, I must go for a small operation to remove the .... My fiance and I have been together for over 3 years. Although we have not had intercourse we do enjoy a healthy sexual life. However, my fiance becomes aroused quite easily. He is 24 years old and .... dear Dr.
last month when I went to go to sex with my girl friend, I got a tipycal problem, when I try to enter my penis in to her vagina my penis loose its erection, why it occurs? This is my first t .... I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL FOR A COUPLE MONTHS AND WHEN WE HAVE SEX I CAN ONLY SEEM TO LAST FOR A MIINUTE OR SO. IS THERE ANY THING THAT I CAN DO TO PROLONG EJACULATION. I HAVE NEVER .... For my health graduation standard, i had to chose a topic and i chose teen sex. i was wondering what the difference between love and sex was? hi, i'm a 29 years old male who's still virgin!! i've been masturbating since i was 14, i'm getting married so soon, but i think that my sex drive is not as it used to be, is there any way to increase .... hi, i am 16 years old, and i want to give my boyfriend a blow job, and i know this might sound stupid, but i am afraid i don't know how to. i mean,i know the basic idea of it, but i am scared that i .... I'm a 32-year-old hetero male with Asperger's Syndrome. I've never had a
girlfriend (or lover in any sense of the word -- I'm a virgin), and have never
really come close to doing so. I just don't .... I am 18 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I have never really felt the need for a partner. Until now. I have know this girl for about 6 years and we used to be like siblings, but now I .... I am an 18 year old
male
(virgin), and I have been very concerned with several issues with my
penis.
The problem is that I can't figure out how to pose a question to one of
experts in your ask .... My potential future wife (we will not sleep together until marriage) has had two previous partners. I have had none. What type of STD testing (if any) should she (we) have before marriage. I have h .... My first experience with intercourse was traumatic. I was 16 and my girlfriend announced one month before my 17th birthday that she had decided what to give me for my present. Her virginity and mine. .... FOR THE FIRST TIME, I SWALLOWED WHEN MY BOYFRIEND CAME. NOTHING HAPPENED IMMIDIETLY, BUT ABOUT 4 DAYS AFTER, EVERYTHING I ATE TASTED LIKE CUM. EVEN WHEN I DIDN'T EAT, I TASTED IT IN MY MOUTH. IT'S D .... What would you recommend for a newly married couple with developmental disabilities who are hesitant to consummate their marriage? Do you have a 'learning' video available? At 41 I have never had sexual intercourse. The idea of getting a PAP smear scares me to death. I tighten up at the thought of any coming near my vagina, although I have never had a problem with orgas .... Bleeding during and after intercourse; Painful intercourse I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and its not that he doesnt pleasure me because he does but he would like me to go down on him and ive never done it before i was just curious on what i .... I'm 15, female, and a virgin. I recently noticed two small, smooth, round, pimple-like bumps on my vagina that occationally itch. I have been trying to find information on what they can be and have .... Me and my girlfriend had contact from outside. My girlfriend is 18 years old and still virgin. She was in her 14th day of menstrual cycle. During contact I ejaculate small amount in her genital organ .... what is supposed to happen when you have sex for the first time? Is is supposed to hurt?
Are you supposed to bleed? i am a virgin but may be having sex soon. i have never pulled my foreskin back, and until a few months ago i never new i had to. i try to pull it back, but i daren't in case it rips, bleeds or hurts. .... We have a very beautiful and well-grounded relationship in all aspects, but sex.
My girlfriend says that she wants to be with me but there is something unknown
that is obstructing our sexual life. .... My question is not really health related. I am a virgin and plan on remaining so till my wedding night. My question is what are your views as a doctor on pre-marital sex? Do you believe there a hea .... I am 27.5 years old. Until a little less than a month ago, I was a virgin. I have always had a strong desire for sexual inimacy, and sometimes found it overpowering. I have had what I will label a .... While I had first sexual intercourse I didn't bleed so my husband doesn't trust on me. Is there any particular reason or is it something unusual? I am a 19 year-old male and have never had sex and will be sometime soon with my girlfriend. I have 3 questions:
1) My penis is small, about 3.5 inches hard and 2 inches soft. Can I give my girlfri .... A moral dilemma. OK this is really hard to say, and I'm sick of lying about it constantly.
I have been with my girl friend for 5 months and I fell in love with her about 3 months ago, and she loves m .... I am 25 and never had a real boyfriend until now. I want to sleep with my boyfriend but i am very nervous of my odor. I have heard of all the jokes of the 'fish' smell and knowing that everyone is dif .... Hi!! I got a question to ask. I am 18 years old and and me and my partner are willing to experience sexual intercourse, but I am not sure if I could because I am ashamed of the size of my penis. What .... I'm a quadriplegic, 24-year-old male and have never had
sex. I get erections all the time but cannot relieve them
myself because of my disability. They are getting longer,
more frequ .... What I was wondering is if a gynecologist could
prove that I am a virgin. What is it they would be looking
for in .... I'd like to know if a hymen actually bleeds when it
breaks? I have a question & desperately need answer. Is there
any way a man can tell if a woman is a virgin or not just
by .... I have question for you and I'm an abashed for this
question. I have new girlfriend and I didn't make sex with
any .... Actually I have a question. Where is the hymen located?
I tried inserting a handle of a toothbrush in slowly and see
.... I am 33 , I used to masturbate in a strange manner, I
tried to forcedly ejaculate without erection while
watching TV, for se .... I got married a little over a month ago. I am a virgin and he isn't. We haven't had sex yet because every time we try I pull back. Recently we tried and he got his head in but then I pulled back.
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