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Love and Relationships: Am I Pregnant?

Am I Pregnant? Introduction:
Many women – and their partners – experience the symptoms of pregnancy and are absolutely delighted. Others are surprised… and then delighted! Still others are distressed, and need resources for how to deal with an unplanned pregnancy. This channel helps people to recognize the signs of pregnancy, provides resources for where a woman can have a pregnancy test done, and offers suggestions for a woman in making her decision to either become a parent, terminate the pregnancy, or place the baby with an adoptive family.

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  • When my boyfriend and i have sex... his seman doesnt stay inside of me.. is that bad? and what does it mean?
  • Hi.I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now and we have had intercourse many times. She has been on the pill for a while now. The last time we had intercourse, I didn't use a condom. However, I h ....
  • can you get pregnant from masterbation
  • Me and my girlfriend had sex, with protection, and i also didnt cum in her, a week after she had her period but now her vagina is bleeding for no reason, is she pregnent?
  • Four days ago my boyfriend and I were fooling around in bed. Neither of us have ever had sex or been in any way sexually active. We ended up both with our pants off and his penis was touching my vagin ....
  • I gave a handjob to my boyfriend, who ejaculated and had cum on his penis. after that, we had intercourse without protection. is there any possible chance that i could get pregnant because of the dry ....
  • Can my girlfriend get pregnant if she takes a kleenex with my cum on it and goes into the bathroom and takes the cum off the kleenex and pushes it up her vagina? Or what if she has it on her hand and ....
  • Okay i swear i may die of stress. Please, someone end my misery! I know how stupid this was, im 15 and my boyfriend and i were fooling around when i said that he could put his head into my vagina. It ....
  • I have been off of birth control for about 4 months but my period has never been very regular since I came off of it. I'm not sure exactly what my typical cycle is but it has been 30 days since my las ....
  • I feel kind of dumb for having to ask this, since i'm 32 years old and should of know better. I recently started dating a guy who i didn't plan on having sex with but i did. I haven't been on birth co ....
  • I NEED HELP CAUSE I CAN'T GET IT OFF MY MIND!!! Ok, me and my girlfriend were fooling around and I want to know the possibility of her becoming pregnant if this situation happened: So, what's the p ....
  • Well, me 'n my boyfriend had sex at his house, in his bathtub, and thing is, im on birth control and he DOES NOT use a condom, i'm okay with that. We agreed on it, but im not sure how long it took for ....
  • Hi sorry i have already posted this but i thought the way i phrased my questionwas a little of so her it is again. I am so sorry. im 18 years old and me and my boyfriend ( also 18) have never had sex ....
  • My girlfriend and I had an encounter thats troubling us. She gave me oral and i came inside her mouth. We drank some soda. A while later we deep kissed and i gave her an oral. Could this make her ....
  • Four days ago, my boyfriend and I were fooling around. We have never had sex and did not have sex that day either. However we were both naked and unprotected. During that time, his penis rubbed up aga ....
  • I'm sorry if this is in the wrong section, I did my best. Anyways, to the point. My girlfriend and I are worried about the possibility of her getting pregnant. Yesterday I masturbated and ejaculated o ....
  • okay...so me and my boyfriend were fooling around and decided to see if it fit for the hell of it..it hurt too bad so i asked him to stop but we are not shure if he precummed or not...the head wasnt e ....
  • Hi, I'm 16, and I have a huge concern. I have a lot of questions, and I don't know where to start. I'm really scared if I'm pregnant, and I had sex for the first time on Dec. 22. We didn't use prot ....
  • Hi, I am a 17 year old male and I desperatly need someone to alliviate my worries. Okay, last night my girlfriend and I were dry humping as usual, her with a pai or boy shorts on and a shirt, and me ....
  • Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex but he couldn't get it in. He had a condom on but eventually we gave up. He ejaculated into the condom and we flushed it. I told him to wipe it before he got on t ....
  • Ok im beginging to freak out here! i have peoblems with my periods and i havnt had one in 2 months. Me and my boyfriend were fooling around one night and i gave him a hand job and his sperm was all ov ....
  • Hi, I am currently taking the contraceptive Pill Microgynon 30 , never missed a pill and we use condoms. The other evening my husband touched himself at the bottom of his penis and reassured me no ....
  • URGENT HELP NEEDED!!! Recently myself and my girlfriend were enjoying ourselves in a river. Things began to get a little heated and i inserted my penis into her vagina but only for a little over 2 s ....
  • me and my b/f were having protected sex and I was on my stomach the condom broke and he ejaculated but pulled out halfway into the ejaculation. I went to clean up and saw sperm on my underwear. Not ....
  • hello. me and my girlfriend are both 16 and were together one night. we were feeling each other. i had not ejaculated or anything like that just pre-ejaculated i assume. she toutched herself forgettin ....
  • can you get pregnant by sucking dick
  • can you get pregnant by oral sex
  • Hi, I just enganged in sexual acts amd my partner and he ejaculated all over my breasts. I was wonerding what would be the safest way to get clean and not get pregnant, for example when I take a showe ....
  • on the 9th of december i had gotten my period. the usuall week long. well i had just got off my rag when i had unprotected sex with my bf. he didnt cum in me, and yes i do know about the pre-cum sercu ....
  • Great Site. I actually should have registered on a site like this about a year ago. I became sexual active around that time, and since then i've had a few close calls/questions. My question is abou ....
  • My Boyfriend and i were laying in bed and i had my pants and underware down! he had his boxer on and his shorts on he rubbed his dick against my clit/vagina...he never went in me! am i pregnant?
  • A few days ago my boyfriend and I engaged in dry sex. He was wearing boxers and shorts, and he had just fingered me so my pants were pulled down. He was on top of me and he did ejaculate but im not su ....
  • I feel so ridiculous asking this question, but I just have to. It helps to hear the opinions of professionals. I know similar questions have been asked on here but I'm paranoid and I just want to as ....
  • I am 21 years old and a virgin, my boyfriend is 24. 4 times in the last two weeks we have 'dry humped' but we were naked and it wasn't very dry at all. A few times he even had his head in me. He ca ....
  • well, I don't know how to put this. My gf and I have been having semi-unprotected sex for over a year now. I always pull out before hand, and I mostly wear condoms. Anyways.. what happened is one tim ....
  • out of curiosity me and my boyfriend tried anal sex ....we did not use protection and i think alittle bit of semen leaked down towards the vagina,i'm not sure about on it but i quickly cleaned it off ....
  • Hi, a few days ago me and my girlfriend were fooling around in bed. We haven't had any intercourse, but we were "dry humping" and I ejaculated on her. I was naked and she was only with her panties. Se ....
  • OK here's my problem and question, I was suppose to start my ......... on 10/21/05 and it has not shown up yet, I had sex around my ovulation period and the condom broke. I took a pregnancy test it sa ....
  • I've got some questions regardging the effects of precum. I was with my gf, and she's a virgin and all, but about 5 hours before seeing her [around noon], I had masturbated and after that, I showered. ....
  • I went to visit my boyfriend and we began fooling around. Weve never had sex before but we were both naked. WE were cuddling and his penis was rubbing me from behind. He wasnt next to my vagina openin ....
  • NEED HELPP!!..Me and my girlfriend are worried bout possiblities of her being pregnant. Even tho i did not ejaculate inside of her and i didnt have precum on me..were still worried of wether i got pre ....
  • hi my bf and i have been going on for 3 years, we are so very much hot with each other because since then we still haven't rried that sex thing. although sometimes, when we are kissing, licking and do ....
  • hi my bf and i have been going on for 3 years, we are so very much hot with each other because since then we still haven't rried that sex thing. although sometimes, when we are kissing, licking and do ....
  • is it possible to get pregnant without penetration (only contact) and before ejaculation? i don't remember exactly when this happened - if it was 4 days before or a day after ovulation. it is about 9 ....
  • I have been taking tryphasic oral contraceptives for a 4 years now, and am usually pretty good about taking them on time. Recently though I have been under a minimal ammount of stress and have been of ....
  • Hi, i am young teenager and overly worried about this..about a week ago my b/f and I were fooling around. We have never had sexual intercourse but we do have oral sex. I gave him head but he did NOT ....
  • My gf and I were having some fun between us the other night. We did several things, but I would like to mention ask is: we had vaginal sex on and off I believe 3 times, and only for a short time each, ....
  • i masturbated the other week. later, i found out one of my housemates also did, and possibly touched some the the stuff (ie the faucet, remote control, etc.) afterwards. if there was still sperm on th ....
  • can instant hand sanitizer kill sperm? (ya know the kind that melts when it touches you're hand?) and if so if a girl was to put this inside her after unsafe sex could it prevent a pregancey?
  • hey this is a great site and i want to ask a question that will probly clear up a lot of other questions, ok me and my girl friend were haveing sexual intercoruse and i was wondering. we did it with a ....
  • ok i really REALLY need help on this one it's buging the hell out of me, ok yesterday me and my GF were umm "doing it" and during intercoruse the condom snapped i felt it and pulled out. my girl frien ....
  • I am an 18 year old female that just recently moved miles away from home in order to attend college. I am residing in the campus dorms with the rest of the female freshmen. These first few weeks of ....
  • Can being raped stop me from getting pregnant?
  • ok i am not having sex but my boyfriend and i have fooled around in other ways. ie. fingering and handjobs. anyways my question is the other day i was fooling around with my boyfriend we were both ful ....
  • QUICK QUESTIONS! well my bf and i recently had sex in a thursday night/early friday morning and we didnt use a condom. he said he didnt cum at all..and said he doesnt really pre cum and i heard that ....
  • Me and my ex boyfriend had sex in the middle of july and i havent came on my period yet and its July 30. but i had sex with my boyfriend on july 31st and my boyfriends sperm went in to me could i be p ....
  • i have not had sex but me and my boyfriend mess around i am so scared of getting pregnant that i can never enjoy when i am intimate with my boyfriend. my question is that i was giving my boyfriend a h ....
  • could i be pregant well i had unprotected sex with my Bf after i gave him oral sex and made him cum and then we imediatly had sex
  • Thank You all for all your Hard work, I searched high and low on the internet and by far this site was the best. I know you answer about 70 million of these but i just seek some relief for my worry ....
  • Hi, I hope you guys can help me! I recently gave my boyfriend a handjob. afterwards i went in the bathroom and washed my hands twice with soap and water. then I changed my pad. After I did this, i sud ....
  • 1.my b/f and i had sex on the 2nd and 4th day after my period and both time he ejaculated (cum) inside of me is there a possibility that i can or may be pregnant? 2.how long should i wait after haing ....
  • Dear Sexualhealth, My wife and I are trying to conceive, and I realize how little I know about timings, etc. She told me that we should not have sex more than every 48 hours because my sperm would ....
  • Hello, this is my first time here but I don't know where else I can get information. I've had sex with my girlfriend twice (the first time she had her period like 2 days after, but this is concerning ....
  • Hi, my girlfriend and I are avoiding sex, but we would like to fool around a bit. We were planning on me ejaculating on her in the shower and I was wondering about the consequent risk of pregnancy.
  • me and my bf had unprotected sex, I am on birth control, and he did pull out before he came but I was wondering what kind of chance there is i can get pregnant and if there is any way I could make a h ....
  • my period is usually 27 days cycle. I was on my 15ths day since the first day of my last period. My boyfriend pre-ejaculated on his boxers. He touched the damp spot, then waited for 30 seconds before ....
  • Okay, I normally don't like doing stuff like this but i really need some piece of mind.

    *takes deep breath*

    A few days ago me and my GF were fooling around and I think i may have gone a bi ....

  • my girlfriend's perdiod is 11 days later than normal. i am worried that she may be pregnant - about 8 days ago we were masturbating, but neither of us ejaculated, but before i fingered her i felt the ....
  • Hello, I would like to ask a question which I am very, very worried about and its caused me anxiety for quite a while now. I masturbated wile my mother was asleep. Then afterwards I went to the toilet ....
  • Ok again srry that you have to hear the same questions all the time bu I am parranoid just as everybody else who asks thier questions. My boyfriend rubbed his penis up against my clitoris(we were both ....
  • my period is usually 27 days cycle. I was on my 15ths day since the first day of my last period. My boyfriend pre-ejaculated on his boxers. He touched the damp spot, then waited for 30 seconds before ....
  • My girlfriend and I had sex recently, we used a condom but afterwards saw it not on the penis, we weren't sure whether it came off before during or after ejaculation. It was roughly 13 days before the ....
  • Im not sure where to ask, so i submitted this question in two areas. Earlier tonight my girlfriend and i were dryhumping and a lot of precum got on her (we were going at it for quite a while) thou ....
  • Earlier tonight my girlfriend and i were dryhumping and a lot of precum got on her (we were going at it for quite a while) though i urinated fairly soon before we started so i know no sperm were in my ....
  • hi docter i want to know can the girl get pregnant and she is still a virgin cause my bf said some girls are born open now i'm really worried can i get pregnant if my bf had sperm on me...???????
  • Is it possible to get pregnant if man ejaculates in a woman the day before a woman starts her period?
  • Me and my boyfriend were fooling around last night, I gave him a hand job and he ejaculated and then he wiped his hand on his pants, licked his fingers, then fingered me. Is there a possiblity i could ....
  • what is the reason for the absence of mensuration? How it can be solved?
  • Hi I am 41 and have 3 children 13, 10 and 8. After my son (8), I had my tubes tied. My fiance' and I have been talking about having a baby which I really want. We have a very health sex life (every ....
  • Hi, my girlfriend are both 22 yrs old and have decided not to have sexual intercourse, but we are active in other sexual activity (outercourse such as mutual masturbation and oral sex). We are worrie ....
  • hi! My boyfriend and I recently got intimate. We didn't have sex, but we had oral and "dry humping" He was naked and I had panties on. I was worried about pregnancy and that's why I kept them on. He t ....
  • My boyfriend and I were fooling around about 2 weeks ago and he masturbated and may have gotten cum on his hands, but then WASHED HIS HANDS. He then proceeded to finger me, but not to the point of org ....
  • Hi, I am a 23 yr old Female. I just recently started having sex again,( 3 weeks ago) after a 3 year "drought". I have been having unprotected sex, and contracted a UTI in the first week. I have never ....
  • Ok this is my question: I have a problem with strssing out everytime I have sex with my boyfried. Since I stress so much he decided that he'd only have sex with me for less than 5 minutes. he didn' ....
  • About a month ago, a few days after I my period was over, my boyfriend and i who both would like to stay virgins enjoyed other sexually pleasures being both naked. His penis didnt go in but I didnt no ....
  • My girlfriend and I were recently dry-humping. I was wearing a shorts and underwear while she was in her underwear. Her underwear was small, thong, and I came while she was dry-humping. When I came it ....
  • Hi, I am 18 years old and my girlfriend is 17, we have never had intercourse, but we do enjoy oral and "masturbation" sex. About two weeks ago, my girlfriend gave me a handjob and when i came she it ....
  • I'm 16 and about 4 months ago, I went to a party and got really intoxicated to the point where some of the nights a blur. I get really paranoid about being pregnant and stuff so this is my question. ....
  • I had 2 periods last month and I just started my period again this month. This period though is a little light and I feel light headed and sick. Why is this happening?
  • Hello, I am not to sure how to ask this but I was wondering if it is posible for me to get pregnant if my boyfriends sperm isn't very powerful(meaning it "leaks out" when we are finished). he does "c ....
  • Dr., First I will like to thank you for all the help you provide through your answers.

    I'm a 19-year-old male; my gf is 18. We are both students at the moment. I've been reading the answers in ....

  • My boyfriend and I had dry sex when I was on my period. We both had on all our cloths and I was wearing a pad because I can not wear tampons for medical reasons, while we were doing this he came and ....
  • I had sex last week and inserted my penis in her vagina with pushing in and out about 3 times and pulled out with out coming close to nutting. wanted to know if a good chance of her getting preganant ....
  • If a person masterbates in a public restroom and wipes away the semen with toilet tissue and then touches the toiled tissue roll with his dry hands, can a female become pregnant from using that toilet ....
  • Is it possible for a girl to be pregnant & she does not know it for 4 months, is it possible to have periods & still be pregnant? Plz do answer.
  • Hi, I've read many of the problems from your archives, it seems to solve my problem but I'll just want to make sure I'm safe.

    Recently, my girlfriend and me were having "fun" around naked, there ....

  • Hello Dr. I read through your archives and it answered a lot of my problems. But I've decided to ask you myself to ensure everything. Awhile back, me and my gf were doing some kissing and all and ....
  • I just had sex yesterday with my girlfriend, March 20th 2004. We did not use a condom. I pulled out and then i went away from her. Whats the possibilty she is pregnant?
  • I have a question to add on to another one that I read. I was reading through questions that had to deal with precum, and the possibility of getting pregnant. One of the questions talked about rubbing ....
  • hi, i want to know can i get pregnant if a guy kisses me all over my body, my breasts...... can i get pregnant if i touch all my genitals including vagina with my clothes off. when my partner is not t ....
  • I was dry humping my girlfriend, genitals to genitals. She was naked but I had both underwear and sweatpants on. As I ejaculated, I moved away from her. Could precum or cum travel thru my underwe ....
  • I was wondering can a woman get pregnant without intercourse, and are there cases of such incidents?
  • Hi Larry, My period is late for a few days but my period are quite irregular. I'm quite worried now because a month ago my boy friend and I had "dry humping" and we were both naked. We did not engage ....
  • I have two questions. First is - last night my boyfriend and I had sex twice using a condom. My period had ended 2 days before. My boyfriend didn't reach orgasm either time, and afterwards we checked ....
  • I wanted to know what the chance of getting pregnant is if I was in the shower with my boyfriend and we had soap all over our body but he touched my vagina with his penis for a second. I'm not sure ....
  • For the past few days I've been reading the other Q + A's regarding my same basic concern but, selfishly, still consider my situation to be "unique," and therefore seek "unique" information.

    5 d ....

  • I have one question for u,if u help me i will be very happy,i am from kosovo(prishtina),the problem is:,i have sex whith my boy friend and i didn't have a bloodshed,he think that i was not virgin,but ....
  • Hey, I had sex for the first time about 3 days ago and Im 19 years old. My partner and I had sex unprotected and I been looking over your other responces in relation to the question I have. We were ha ....
  • Hi there doctor, i have an urgent matter and i really need your help because I do not know who to turn to right now. Here's the situation - My girl friend and I were naked and we were fooling arou ....
  • Hi there doctor, i have an urgent matter and i really need your help because I do not know who to turn to right now. Here's the situation - My girl friend and I were naked and we were fooling around. ....
  • If I had sex with my girlfriend on day 1 of her cycle, and fourteen days later she takes a home pregnancy test and it is negative, and five days later (day 20 of her cycle), she takes another test ....
  • Hi there this is my first time asking a question and i'll try to make it as clear as possible. Here's the situation, recently my girlfriend gave me a hand job and i ejaculated semen, the fluid did not ....
  • I recently had sex for the first time. We didn't use a condom and I am not on the pill yet. I was very close to getting my period and he withdrew before ejaculating in me. We communicated about it ....
  • If I had sex with a female and about 8 hours later she has her period (normal and on time), can she still get pregnant from that episode of sex?
  • I did not have intercourse, but I think I may have been in close contact with pre-ejaculatory fluid(my partner)on the second week of my birth control pills. The problem is I vomited the day before thi ....
  • I have been reading some of the responses you and some of the other experts on here have given about pre-ejaculation and pregnancy. My girlfirend and I are both over the age of 20 i 24 and she 21. w ....
  • My girlfriend and i were fooling around the other night and during her givign oral sex on me I was touching my penis. I know I did not get actual semen on my hands but there could have been the possi ....
  • I have been sexual intercourse with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I haven't had an orgasm yet but I've come close. How can I tell if my boyfriend has had an orgasm if he doesn't moan?
  • Ack! So sorry! He he, didn't see that this was the place to ask the question! I do have two questions, but first a thank you to the people of this message board, the doctors, researchers, writ ....
  • I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. I was on the second day of my period, we used a condom and it did not break (tested it afterwards), but neither of us reached orgasm. My boyf ....
  • Hello, i just want to thank you for all the previous answers you've given me in the past, they've been really helpful! I've been pretty good lately, but now i have a situation i'm a little worried abo ....
  • Is there anyway whatsoever that after being ejaculated outside the male body, sperm/seman can survive in the outside environment such as carpets or the ground for more than three days and still rem ....
  • I've read every single question in your archive, but I still can't find the peace of mind I need to stop obsessing. I think I am absolutely driving my boyfriend up the wall and I'm making myself sick ....
  • Is there any risk of pregnancy from dry humping with no clothes on and the guy wearing a condom?
  • I'm a 15 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have had sex twice. It was not my first time but it hurt a lot. Why is that? My second problem is he said he felt he was hitting something that he didn't ....
  • Thank you so much for your response to my question (http://www.sexualhealth.com/questions/read.cfm?ID=2852). My boyfriend and I have a very open and loving relationship and I've talked to him about ho ....
  • I know there are no guarantees in life, but I want to know if there are any possibilities whatsoever that sperm could survive the following: If I had sex with my wife at 8:30pm (she is already pregn ....
  • My boyfriend and I weren't wearing any clothes and I began rubbing my vagina (clitoral area, not the vaginal opening) on the lower part of his penis (near the testicles) away from the head of his peni ....
  • Is it possible to get a girl pregnant if I had sex with her on her 1st day of her menstrual cycle?

    What is the shortest amount of time (in days) can a girl's cycle be and still ovulate in that c ....

  • Recently my wife missed one of her birth control pills. I was wondering how missing the pill effects how well it works.. Also, we dont like using condoms and have heard that when used correctly, pulli ....
  • I have read on many websites that sperm is not present in precum when the urethra is flushed by urination. However, other websites do not mention this fact. I would just like to know the truth, how is ....
  • my girlfriend took my penis and rubbed against her glans, prepuce, and labia minora area for about 1 minute. I was afraid if that might cause pregnancy because we had sex an hour or two before(with a ....
  • How long can sperm/seman survive on the roadway, and if a girl accidently stepped on the seman/sperm with her shoes, and later accidently touched the bottom of her shoes, and somehow got it into he ....
  • If a man has sex with a woman and after ejaculating inside the vagina, some sperm/seman spills out of the woman's vagina, and onto the sheets, could that sperm/seman remain viable after a few hours a ....
  • Hi doctor it's me again. Sorry to bother you again I feel pretty bad about it. I got some good news and that is my period came this month. But the question is that it came on day 20 since my last p ....
  • Hello again, How are you doing? I have a somewhat odd question. i am going on a trip with my b/f and was wondering what are the chances of becoming pregnant by sleeping in the same bed with him (ju ....
  • Hi Doctor I know you told me not to worry anymore and I've been doing so. But I was wondering if bloating (stomach feeling full) is a sign of pregnancy. But I don't have any other symptoms (IE nause ....
  • Hi, I was wondering if you sit on a chair with semen (fully clothed) and if the semen gets on your thigh (really high up) can sperm somehow swim up to your vagina and get you pregnant? Can it swim thr ....
  • I think I have a paranoia problem. Every time my boyfriend and I engage in sexual activity (everything except intercourse), I get paranoid about whether I have become pregnant or not. This is even i ....
  • Hello, i was just wondering if there was semen on a chair or something and if you sit on it, can you get pregnant? I know it sounds proposterous, but I'm kind of worried. Thanks.
  • Ok here's what is up... My girlfriend and I were making out and she wanted to have sex... She has been on the pill for five months, but recently missed about 5 days in a row.. she then got back on the ....
  • Thank you so much for your help doctor, it takes a lot of stress off of me. I am a very paranoid person as you can probably tell by now. I just have too much in front of me to get pregnant at my age ....
  • Hi Dr, I'm just wondering something as i was looking through your archive of questions. If I was wearing underwear and jeans and my girlfriend was wearing underwear, is it safe to assume that if i ha ....
  • I am so so so sorry for writting you a third e-mail instead of just one. But I forgot to tell you that my light period lasted around 3 days only. It went from the brownish stuff to a light red after ....
  • I have no words that can describe how nice you've been to me =). You didn't get annoyed of me after all these questions, I really appreciate that. Well I do have a couple of more questions and that ....
  • Hi, i have to thank you sooo much for all the questions you have answered for me, it really makes me sooo happy that you understand me and help me out so much! I appreciate everything you do! But i do ....
  • Sorry again for bothering you but you seem to be the only person that knows their stuff that I know of. So once again I would really appreciate it if you can help me out here. I told you awhile back ....
  • Hi i just have one more question! Okay say me and my boyfriend were dy humping for a little bit, but i forgot i had a good sized hole right where my vagina is, but we were only dry humping for like a ....
  • My question is on sperm survival. If I ejaculate at night around 9pm and I get seman on myself but I try to wipe it all off with a towel, what are the chances that any of the sperm from that ejacu ....
  • Dear Dr. McCaffree,

    I have read some of your replies to questions that are similar to mine, but I have been completely stressing myself out over this. Eight days ago, I was lying in bed with my ....

  • Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex (I did not ejaculate during or after sex, although I had pre cum). I got worried and then found out we did this a day before she was due to start ovulating. I' ....
  • After ejaculation, how long (MAXIMUM AMOUNT OF TIME) can sperm survive outside the body and still remain viable to cause pregnancy if introduced into the vagina?
  • Hello, I have asked you a few questions before but i have a few more to ask you! I sent you two e-mails but that was probably about 2 or 3 weeks ago so i'm going to try again because i really need you ....
  • Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom. We didn't have one and we didnt' want to kill the moment. so we decided to have sex but when he was about it cum to pull out. so he did. I'm worried to th ....
  • I a worried about almost everything I do sexually, I always wonder if there is away I could get pregnant if I do certain things. Ever since I had sex (one time and only once) I've been worried about g ....
  • Hello:

    I am trying to find out the chances of getting a girl pregnant from dry humping. I have read many, many articles on this, yet none have really specified percentages, etc. In addition, an ....

  • Hello:

    I am trying to find out the chances of getting a girl pregnant from dry humping. I have read many, many articles on this, yet none have really specified percentages, etc. In addition, an ....

  • So sorry but its me again.

    you said that sperm can't get thru clothes. but lets assume he was not wearing his shorts.

    let say for a moment that we were both ONLY in our underwears literal ....

  • I was making out with my boyfriend pretty intensely but we both had our clothes on. He had on shorts (and underwear i am assuming) and i was wearing my underwear and shirt. I had my legs wrapped aroun ....
  • Thank you so very much for your reply. I am not sure if you received my revised email cuz i did have a couple more questions on that.

    Anyways, if i recall correctly, it was the following:

    ....

  • REVISED:

    I was making out with my boyfriend pretty intensely but we both had our clothes on. He had on shorts (and underwear i am assuming) and i was wearing my underwear and shirt. I had my ....

  • I was making out with my boyfriend pretty intensely but we both had our clothes on. He had on shorts (and underwear i am assuming) and i was wearing my underwear and shirt. I had my legs wrapped aro ....
  • I don't know if you recieved my first e-mail but incase you didn't here is my question. I touched my bfs undies which had some fresh PRECUM on it. So I then went off to wash my hands with soap and wa ....
  • Sorry for asking such a dumb question but I am very scared of what happened. Me and my bf were kinda kissing and he started to get excited. I touched him down there on his underwear and I got some pre ....
  • Recently me and my girlfriend have been intimate with each other, but both of us are still virgins. Three days ago, I was wearing cotton underwear, and she was wearing cotton shorts and nylon panties ....
  • I am a bachelor working at outstation. I do lot of masturbation at outstation and at home as well. I do it on the bed most of the times (both the places). In the bathroom when at home(I wash it once i ....
  • After sex, how long to check if pragnent or not? what is the best method to check. thanks
  • after sex, how long to check if pragnent or not? what is the best method to check. thanks
  • i have serveral question. I get ejaculation very fast. I think i am sex addictive. Even in my dream i ejaculate. When i am with my girl friend, if my girl do oral sex with my penis hard ;especiall ....
  • One big question is we do oral sex not sexual intercourse ,but i got ejaculate and sperm might accident get to her veniga. Is it possible she get pregnan. if it is possible, how long will i know? I am ....
  • Hi, I was wondering whether or not I could get pregnant from being fingered if neither of us touches his penis directly (only through boxers or pants)? thank you very much
  • Hi, my significant other and I are not sexually active but I am a bit unclear about the possibility of pregnancy even without intercourse. Specifically, I was wondering if there was any chance that p ....
  • I got a question and hope that you will reply. I am quite worrying over this matter.

    I did sex with my girlfriend. I inserted my penis half way in for about 1 minute. I put it out.

    Then I ....

  • My girlfriend and I were dry humping about 6 weeks ago. We both had on pants and underwear. i noticed afterwards that some semen had soaked to the outside of my pants. a couple days later she thought ....
  • I was wondering if it is possible for certain women to not get their period. I heard that some women do not get it as regular as others, and was wondering if this was true. I am a 20 year old female ....
  • I had an oral sex with my girlfriend and when i reached my orgasm and ejaculation on the outside surface vigina. After that, she quickly go to wash with water. i would like to know is she will have ch ....
  • Please I need your help...my girlfriend and I did something. I put my penis into her vagina, but did not "cum" or anything, just stuck it in and moved around, nothing happened at all. I didn't "pop ....
  • Can i just say that I dont why but as i read your reply to my question about terrified sperm I started crying because for the first time i felt like someone else understood what i was talking about. ....
  • I am getting paranoid (OR MORE LIke I am terrified) about sperm. Like today I used a public toilet and i was scared to death of what if sperm got on me from the toilet seats. The extent of my parano ....
  • Hi,

    I'm a sixteen year old virgin; but, my boyfriend and I have engaged in mutual masturbation, and during this period some of his sperm may have gotten in contact with my vagina, although ....

  • My boyfriend and I were together, and he had an erection. I could feel a little wetness on the end of his penis (pre-cum). I think that both of us had contact with this fluid on our hands, but then so ....
  • Hello. I'm 17 and a virgin. My boyfriend and I just began sharing intimate moments together, without actually having sex. We both had our underwear on and he had an erection. I could feel a little ....
  • Hello. This is a wonderful website! I have a quick question. Is it possible to have an earlier, lighter period (just 1 day shorter, but a constant flow) and be pregnant? I have heard different answ ....
  • Hey. I have a question about the chances of pregnancy without intercourse. I did read the FAQ's page before writing this e-mail, but wanted to know a few more specifics. My boyfriend and I have bee ....
  • Hi. Please help. Well i have many questions. well first is if i done cum on my hand and finger my g/f is there anyway that she can get pregnant? my second question is since we both are first timers ....
  • i am a 15 year old female who had sex with my boyfriend only he had his boxers on for the past 3 days the last night we did this i got my period {or i though it was} but it stopped the next morning do ....
  • I have a question regarding pre-cum and pregnancy. My girlfriend is having her period and the other night she and I were playing around. My penis tends to make pre-cum and she knows it. After her r ....
  • Me and my girl had "outercourse" less than last sunday the 4th. We BOTH had jeans and underwears on. After I ejactuated (inside my underwear) while rubbing AROUND where her vigina would be, my girl t ....
  • I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and we have decided that we want to experience our first sexual relationship. My boyfriend has explained to me that he will not penetrate ....
  • Hi,Im 16 years on and I have only been on orthotricyclene for 5 days, and my boyfriend has ejaculated inside of me. I started on the sunday after i started my period, and my doctor told me that i shou ....
  • I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated on my thigh while i was wiping off the sperm i think some of it got on my hand and i then wiped my vagina could there be any possible ....
  • me and my partner never actually had intrecorse but we did have our reprodutive organs next to each oter when he ehaculated im i or can i get pregnet?
  • I am not sure if this is your area of study, but most of the people on your site already had mail boxes too full! I am a 20 yr old female and I am currently taking Lunelle, which is a monthly contrace ....
  • Hi, i just wanted to ask you if there is a high risk of me being pregnant. I just got over my period today it bleed just a little today and my boyfriend and i had sex with a spermicidal condom but it ....
  • I just want to ask you about pregnacy -- after how many days women can be pregnant?
  • Recently I have genital touch with my boyfriend but both of us are clothes on (slack and underwear),is it possible for the sperm to enter the ovum and cause pregnancy? my coming menstrual period rough ....
  • I am 16 and just yesterday my period ended and I had sexual intercourse for the first time. Now it is the day after and I have been bleeding alot from my vagina, especially when i go to the bathroom. ....
  • I am a 16 year old gyrl and I jus had sex for the first time on Monday...and we didn't have a condom. He pulled out early or whatever...and I started to get my period that night...but is there any cha ....
  • ok so today i had sex with my girlfriend and she was on her period for about 3 days now and well i was about to ejaculate and the condom broke on the last stroke in. i pulled out right when the semen ....
  • i was wondering if you can get pregnant by sucking dick if you use a condom.
  • Can you get pregnant without having sex?
  • im a virgin and using withdrawal method, my partner tell me that he withdraw the sperm cell but im afraid for getting a pregnant... my last period is may 9 and we intercourse last may 29 its almost 21 ....
  • Im 16...and i had protected sex around April 10th or something and i had just gotten over my menstral cycle and he said he didnt finish so that was good....and i was scared i wasnt gonna get my period ....
  • I am 15 years old, on March 2nd of 2002 I lost my virginity. We used a condom but at the end right before he ejaculated he took the condom off and came on my stomach. the day after I got my period and ....
  • I have a girl friend whch is 16 years old and I'm 15 years old. 2 weeks ago we had some sort of sex. I had my boxers on and she had her panties on too. And I was rubing my private part on her private ....
  • hi,for some time i been wondering about my girlfriend getting pregnant during her peroids an almost to the completion of her cycle even if it's the last day ..im asking this cause i came in her three ....
  • If my boyfriend ejaculates into my mouth, how long do the sperm stay alive in my mouth? Are the sperm killed by brushing my teeth, using mouthwash, etc? Or, can the sperm be completely washed away b ....
  • Can I get pregnant, my future husband didn't go right inside me?
  • My boyfriend and I have never had sex, but we do everything else. The other night I gave him a hand job and he cummed. While his penis was still wet, he rubbed against me. He did not put it in me, bu ....
  • Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are making out, a little bit of his pre-cum comes through his pants. If I am lying on top of him, can I get pregnant? Can the sperm come through my underwear? I am ....
  • If my boyfriend ejaculates into my mouth, how long does the sperm stay alive in my mouth? I am concerned about touching my mouth afterwards and then spreading it to my vagina. I am paranoid about to ....
  • about a week ago i had unprotected sex during my menstral cycle. ive been on birth control pills for a while and i am monogimous to my boyfriend, we both have been checked for any stds and we both are ....
  • My partner and I are wondering that if that is it possible to get a women preganant by using a condom twice. However, only if the male doesn't ejaculate at all. The reason why we're asking this ques ....
  • Just wanted to know my partner and I had sex, however, I wanted to try it without a condom by inserting just once then pull out. She said that she wasn't ovulating, and I told her there was no pre-ej ....
  • is it true that if you have unprotected sex while during your period and the man ejaculates inside of you, is your risk of becoming pregnant less? what if you were on birth control in the same situati ....
  • well me and my b/f were having sex but he didnt use a condom.. this is our second time having sex. He pulled out but im still worried.. i should get my period in about 4 days.. what are the chances im ....
  • I used condom when i had sex, but at the beginning when he didn't push it deeply, we didn't use any condom. I haven't had period for 2 or 3 months. I was not sexually active before. Because I had heli ....
  • Is it possible for my girlfriend to get pregnant by my pre-cum? We lay down like we have sex and I rub my penis on her clitoris. We know that my pre-cum lubes it up and gets all over her genitals. So ....
  • I WOULD LIKE TO ASK YOU WHETHER IT IS POSSIBLE FOR A WOMAN TO GET PREGNANT BY ENTERING A PLACE WHERE A MAN HAD PREVIOUCLY MASTURBATED WHITHOUT ANY VISSIBLE AMOUNTS OF SPERM?
  • A few nights ago my girlfriend and I were fooling around. We are both 17 and were trying new things. I had an erection and had reached down to "re-adjust" myself, noticing that my penis was wet on t ....
  • If you and your partner are both virgins and you are messing around and or foreplay and the male happens to cum while in foreplay. If the sperm happens to get on or near the vagina will the sperm swim ....
  • my girlfriend started her period on a wednesday and she is on birth controll,but also this whole week she has been on antibiotics for a cold ,and she heard from somewhere that when on antibiotics birt ....
  • my girlfriend started her period on a wednesday and she is on birth controll,but also this whole week she has been on antibiotics for a cold ,and she heard from somewhere that when on antibiotics birt ....
  • my girlfriend is on the pill and this last week she has been on antibotics for a little cold she has had and she said something about that antibiotics makes the pill not work , knowing that she did no ....
  • my girlfriend is on the pill, for over a year now, and we just started having unprotected sex, last night, i think i might have ejaculated inside of her, could she be pregnant?
  • I had semen on the back of my hand, which i wiped off. Soon my hand was dry. Later on when I went to change my underwear, I touched near my vagina taking them off. I was wondering if it was possible f ....
  • can a woman get pregnant without actually having intercourse
  • ok this is the deal... i had unprotected sex and he came in me, the day i was supposed to start my period. my period somewhat started but was way lighter and didnt last as long as normal. im on birthc ....
  • hello i am 15 A few days ago my boyfriend fingered me and also placed his penis on me but over my panties. I'm not sure if he cummed or not but my most important concern is that my period hasn't come ....
  • My girlfriend and I are exploring oral sex, but she and I are very concerned over the possibility of her getting pregnant. The situation that worries us the most is kissing immediately after I 'cum' ....
  • I havent had my period in 42 days and i have been eating a lot, my stomach hurts alot too, but it's not a normal kind of hurt. How many days is in between menstral cycles.
  • I was wondering how many days are normally in between menstrual cycles.
  • if you have unprotected sex, using the "pull out" method.. and you get your period about 4/5 days later.. is that a sure sign that you aren't pregnant? I've been feeling normal, and it's been about a ....
  • How can i find out I am pregnet with out my parnets knowing? If i am pregnet can i get rid of it with out my parents knowing?
  • My partner and I are having unprotected sex and we only do it after I have my period. My question is is there a chance that I still may get pregnant? My second question is: if Im not into the sex em ....
  • Hi there and thank you for taking the time for this. My question is how safe is oral sex in terms of health problems if both partners are healthy and clean? (by healthy I mean both have no colds or ot ....
  • I have been meandering through the net trying to find a definite answer to my question. The question is that "can sperm go through clothing". I notice that eventhough I'm wearing underwear AND tight-w ....
  • hi dr. sandra, im 17 years old and i have been going out with my gf for quite some time. we have had sex for many times and each time we had sex without any contraceptive methods. but there is this on ....
  • To whom it may concern, dr. i wanted to find out if my female partner had any possibility of getting pregnant i f i had sex with her without a condom during the ovulation period of her menstrual cycle ....
  • what is precum? do all guys have it? does it happen everytime a guys has sex? does it contain sperm? how much? can a girl get pregnant from it? if a guy has never had sex before does that determine th ....
  • Is it possible for woman to become pregnant while her hymen is still intact?
  • i would like to know if there is a strong possibility that my female partner can get pregnant if we had sex without a condom but i did not ejaculate into her vagina. i removed my penis before it did.
  • i want to know if there is a possibility that my female partner may get pregnant if we had sexual intercourse without any contraceptive methods but that i did not ejaculate in her vagina?
  • my boyfriend and i have had sex 8 or 9 times in the 2 months that we have been together. we have used protection (condoms) each time and just to be safe he has pulled out every time. but there have be ....
  • I was wondering, I am on birth control and my bf and I used a condom, but once, he didn't get off, so, I figured that I would finish it off manually, so, I took the condom off and did it, and he got o ....
  • I have dated my current girlfriend for 5 months now (we are both virgins and first time boy/girlfriend to each other). Two weeks ago I have started to massage her breasts and sucking her nipples and s ....
  • Will there be a possibility of pregnancy if I have unprotected intercourse while I'm menstruating?
  • I had an intimate nite (penis and outside vagina contact) with my girlfriend ..but no intercourse and and i can be sure of that as there is no penetration and she still a virgin.. the problem is s ....
  • Recently,my boyfriend and i had sex while on my period. we thought it wouldnt really matter if he came inside me since the whole reason i had my period was because my egg was not fertilized. is it pos ....
  • i have periods regularly, and this period had not come yet, I had sex for the first time last month. can my period be late, as it is the first time I experienced sex? or it means pregnancy?
  • i want to ask about pregnancy, me and my gf doesn't have sex.. but we were patting and i ejaculated.. not into her, but onto her vaginal... i am very worry whether she will get pregnant... wat is the ....
  • Question: I am 22 years old and I have always been thin. I have been having sex with my boyfriend and I have noticed some changes with my appearance. I don't know if I am naturally gaining weight or i ....
  • If my boyfriend and I are naked in a hot top together, and his sperm is in the water, can i get pregnant?
  • Recently, my girlfriend ended one pack of contraceptive pills, had her period and on the seventh day, when she was supposed to start the new pack; se started a new pack but of a different brand of con ....
  • is my partner at risk of pregnanacy while preforming oral sex on me, even though I DO NOT cum? Is pre cum enough to inpregnante her? Please advise. Thank you kindly
  • hello the other night my girlfriend and i were having sex and i came inside her but i only left it in for like half the time so half of my "load" was on the sheets. she is on the pill but is there a c ....
  • My girlfriend ended her period a couple of days ago. We had sex first with a condom, but she was uncomfortable. We began to get dressed but then got back into it and had unprotected sex. I withdrew ....
  • Good day, this evening I experimented with mutual masturbation with my girlfriend. She made me orgasm, and while I cleaned myself up and am fairly sure my hands didn't come into contact with semen, I ....
  • i need to know about when i can do sex with my girlfriend without empregnant her. i've heard a lot about 5 days before her period and 5 days after her period, but i am not sure at all and wanted an ex ....
  • My partner and I had sex a total of three times in a three day period. The last time, the condom slipped off. He had not cum yet and I had plenty of spermicide in me. I did not find the condom unti ....
  • hi. I have a question about sex. I had sex with my boyfriend last week. We did it 2 times. At first we did used condom, but the second time no. I am afraid if I get pregnant but my boyfriend said tha ....
  • I am 35 and have been dating a man who 10 years older, we recently had sex for the first time, and he did not ejaculate. He used a condom, but it came off during intercourse and unfortunately remaine ....
  • ok i have had sex with my boyfriend about 15 times.. we have used a condom 2 times and the rest he pulls out... if evertime he pulls out and i see the cum come out when i am off is there a really go ....
  • What is the morning after pill? How does the morning after pill works? Can these pills be get over the counter?
  • Like 2 weeks ago, i recieved my first shot of depo-provera( yes it was during the first 5 days of my period) and today i had sex with my boyfriend again.. but the thing is that the condom slipped off ....
  • what is the lifespan of sperm when exposed to air? I usually have a condom replaced(following the necessary instructions and cautions) after each session of intercourse though I still have doubts abo ....
  • Can you please tell me what the warning signs of pregnancy would be??
  • I recently had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom ( lubricated inside and out with the spermicide NON0XYNOL9)we are both confident that there was no breakage / spillage... but can you tell me the ....
  • I had unprotected sex the day after I finished my period. (My period was late but normal.) A few days after I had very light bleeding. Should I worry about pregnancy?
  • If I used the withdrawal method four days after my girl had her period, How long does sperm, that might have go out through the pre ejaculate liquid, last inside the girl? And what are the chances of ....
  • Hello doctor. i would very much like to know if a woman can get pregnant when she has sexual intercourse 1 or 2 days before her menstruation. she's got irregular menstruation cycle and she said she ha ....
  • my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex but he didn't penetrate me all the way. i'm fearful that i might be pregnant. we've had great communication about that issue but i'm afraid to ask about birth co ....
  • I am 18 and i have been with my girlfriend for two years. We are both still virgins but we do engage in sexual activity often. Recently we were making out and doing some vigorous dry humping. She o ....
  • I am a 18 year old girl. I had unsafe sex 7 days before my starting date of my periods. My periods have not yet started on date. Am i pregnant?. If i have my periods this time, then does that assure t ....
  • Hi, I have a 18 yr old girlfriend, whom i slept with a week ago. I did not insert my penis inside her vagina, but was gives strokes externally. During this her vagina had become wet with my semen. Can ....
  • ok my question is: can i get pregnant if me and my partner have sex in our clothes but he will still ejaculate his semen, and it goes through his clothes and when his clothes get wet from that w ....
  • I have been having sex with my boyfriend. We are always very careful. We always use a condem and spermicide. The condem has never broken. I am three days late for my period. Am I overeacting to b ....
  • alright, tonight, this girl and I, didn't have sex. But we did everything else. We got naked and made love. She gave e a hand job and I cleaned it up with my hands. Well then I fingered her. What I wa ....
  • please help. i am 17 and had sex with my boyfriend. afterwards, he got scared because he said he didn't cum like the usual amount. he got really scared and went to the bathroom and supposedly "examine ....
  • Me and my girlfreind have been making out for quite a while now. Just yesterday we were doing the same, but go carried away. We began having sex. I wasn't wearing a condom, and she hasn't used any k ....
  • Dear Dr., I want to know how last the morning pills give side effect such as vomit, dizzy. Another question is if I am not sure whether or not I am pregnant. When should I use the pregancy test??
  • I want to know if it is possible to become pregnant by having unprotected anal sex?
  • I recently had sex with my girlfriend, and I did not use a condom. I clearly pulled out before I ejaculated but what I want to know is: can she possibly be pregnant even if I did not ejaculate inside ....
  • I recently had sex with my girlfriend, and I did not use a condom. I clearly pulled out before I ejaculated but what I want to know is: can she possibly be pregnant even if I did not ejaculate inside ....
  • I recently had sex with my girlfriend, and I did not use a condom. I clearly pulled out before I ejaculated but what I want to know is: can she possibly be pregnant even if I did not ejaculate inside ....
  • If a man was to ejaculate in a condom containing nonoxynol 9 and still laid in the woman for approx. 10 minutes, the condom came off and spilled inside of her, can she become pregnant? Does that nonox ....
  • My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex (a quick one; so we didn't think that he would be coming soon) this was on Dec. 18 and unfortunately he happened to ejaculate. But the thing he told me that he ....
  • Me and my girlfriend had contact from outside. My girlfriend is 18 years old and still virgin. She was in her 14th day of menstrual cycle. During contact I ejaculate small amount in her genital organ ....
  • how high is the risk factor of getting pregnant from oral sex. i need to know about the implications of oral sex. specifically why it is better than traditional sex.
  • I was wondering if fooling around can cause pregnancy. Last time, my girlfriend and I were "fooling around", in term of almost having sex, except that we were all wearing our clothes and pants. How ....
  • I would want to know if a woman can get pregnant if she gave a man oral sex. I would also like to know if it is sure to use condoms or might she get pregnant anyway
  • When Fooling around with my girlfriend, I'm not totally sure, but before she gave me oral sex i had precummed i believe, i ....
  • I live in angola, where information is very difficult to get. Me and my gitrlfriend had our first sexual experience a few days ago, and her doctor doesn't want her to take the pill. When i´m ejaculati ....

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